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  1. #1
    coreyt Guest

    Default Step after meeting

    I am new to the forum, but a co worker suggested (while drinking lol) I check out the pick up artist. So I figured i'd give it a try.

    My story: I was born with a facial deformity and have always felt subconscious because of it. I just had my final surgery and went to the doctor to get everything else checked out and found out i was critically low on testosterone. I have been getting testosterone shots and voice got deeper and just feel way more confident.

    I'm in college but live at home (how do i get a girl if i live at home) and i get a ride with my mothers bf (i can't drive because i'm legally blind i see out of one eye though so i see enough. Just not enough to drive) So anyway i go in at 630 class not til nine. I see a girl and i've broke the ICE but she listens to her IPOD most of the time so makes her unapproachable. I introduced myself and talked to her about music what now?

    Also in my first class Computer Lit so i feel very comfortable because were in front of the computer! I look over and i've talked to her introduced myself and even got her facebook. I knew she was single but after v-day i was like "So did you and your boyfriend have a nice valentines day? She said "i don't have a boyfriend actually" I looked surprised and said "WOw thats surprising." She giggled and said "Oh really" and then that was it, so what now?

    I'm new at this i use to be pretty shy and am just now out of my shell and eager to talk to her and get her attracted to me despite my physical flaws.

    ALSO this girl from hs who led me on started contacting me, and i want to sorta get her flirting with me and stuff to show her what she is missing any tips?

  2. #2
    Doctor Guest

    Default Re: Step after meeting

    Corey,

    First of all, I am a newcomer to puaforums, and I just started reading "The Game" by Style. If you wanna pick up some literature, I would suggest starting with this, as it's stories as well as game thrown in one, and you'll learn a lot of the lingo in it.

    As for your situation, you don't have a facial deformity anymore, so don't even think twice about it.

    As for the girls, practice some openers on them, and don't even worry about rejection. Think of it as test driving a car, if it doesn't work out, test drive another one. First of all, if you're in class sit next to them about a seat apart, or diagonally in front of them(Work the angles) Some openers you might wanna use are, "Can I ask you're opinion, ___________" fill in something like tattoos or that you're friend thinks that spells work. You can also try "DId you see the kids fighting outside before?" Just use anything to get her talking, it's all basic stuff. Don't ask her boring questions, like where are you from, what are you studying. Be adventurous, ask her why she's distracting you from class, and stuff like that. Remember, it should be a privilege that she's talking to you. I can't give you much more than that, cause I'm new to these ways. My biggest thing in my game is to never ever think of what you're saying, just let it flow, and if you stumble, try to work out of it, or tell her you have to get back to the class thats being conducted in front of you.

    -Doc.

  3. #3
    coreyt Guest

    Post Re: Step after meeting

    Thanks, any other tips guys?

  4. #4
    Bart Doe Guest

    Default Re: Step after meeting

    Yeah, I'd suggest thinking of a couple of subjects that you want to discuss with this girl in advance. I bet you have your own set of good stories, and it's good to have, say, five of them ready at all times. You could call shyness also 'not prepared', or, 'need to exercise your chit-chat skills'.

    Also, practice asking open questions. How was your week? What was the best thing this week? Why was it the best thing?

  5. #5
    coreyt Guest

    Default Re: Step after meeting

    I have the open questions down and the general convos. Its what the next step is I'm curious about. I mean how to get in her head as more then a kid she talks to in class

  6. #6
    Bart Doe Guest

    Default Re: Step after meeting

    When talking with her, start flirting with her a bit. See what Bill wrote on flirting:
    How to Flirt for Flirting's Sake - Pick Up Artist Articles

    And this post by RocketMan is very easy to use because it's just a bulleted list:
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/2...ting-tips.html

    Don't just concentrate on this one particular girl. Start flirting with others, too. Otherwise you'll just create too much pressure and she'll feel this and perhaps back away.
    Last edited by Bart Doe; 02-22-2010 at 09:32 AM.

  7. #7
    Instinct Guest

    Default Re: Step after meeting

    Quote Originally Posted by coreyt View Post
    I am new to the forum, but a co worker suggested (while drinking lol) I check out the pick up artist. So I figured i'd give it a try.

    My story: I was born with a facial deformity and have always felt subconscious because of it. I just had my final surgery and went to the doctor to get everything else checked out and found out i was critically low on testosterone. I have been getting testosterone shots and voice got deeper and just feel way more confident.

    I'm in college but live at home (how do i get a girl if i live at home) and i get a ride with my mothers bf (i can't drive because i'm legally blind i see out of one eye though so i see enough. Just not enough to drive) So anyway i go in at 630 class not til nine. I see a girl and i've broke the ICE but she listens to her IPOD most of the time so makes her unapproachable. I introduced myself and talked to her about music what now?

    Also in my first class Computer Lit so i feel very comfortable because were in front of the computer! I look over and i've talked to her introduced myself and even got her facebook. I knew she was single but after v-day i was like "So did you and your boyfriend have a nice valentines day? She said "i don't have a boyfriend actually" I looked surprised and said "WOw thats surprising." She giggled and said "Oh really" and then that was it, so what now?

    I'm new at this i use to be pretty shy and am just now out of my shell and eager to talk to her and get her attracted to me despite my physical flaws.

    ALSO this girl from hs who led me on started contacting me, and i want to sorta get her flirting with me and stuff to show her what she is missing any tips?
    Check out Sean Stephenson, probably the best motivational speaker on the planet with regards to game, and I have it from David D's inside circle, that he really is getting loads of it.


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