Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA
Originally Posted by acuriousman
I would generally say I agree with this 100% more or less. Very keen insight after all my Facebook is overloaded with hot chicks getting called hot everyday. Comments they NEVER respond to.
What does this tell you?
When a HB9 or HB10 has 10 guys hit her up on a post. She is either going to
A. Comment on the funny post
B. Comment on someone she has prior relationship with
C. Comment on something she has a connection with or curiosity about but like clockwork....
SHE NEVER RESPONDS TO A FLOOD OF ATTENTION LIKE
"Oh you're sooo hot"
"I love you"
I try not to be overly entertaining after all it is Facebook for that matter and I don't count it as a credible stream of poon. Though I have tried many times I still see it only as a fun thing or a game. Anyway not to say I haven't come close it's just I'm way better in-field like Superman and on Facebook well I am like Clark Kent. I feel like no one notices me there (due to the non-obligation to online activities) and the guys that do get noticed are just more than likely being obsessed or a mess. I am not going desperado on facebook like ever so I let the other chums have at it and I just do it for fun.
But when I get in-field the training gloves are off and I am fully present in the moment and killing it every night going out getting the results I want. Done 150 approaches now with 45 phone numbers so my conversion rate is about 30% but some (roughly 20%) I didn't close on purpose with intention so that number should actually be higher since I should get credit for only actual n-close attempts
Either way had a girlfriend every year (especially) Summer since I became a Pick Up Artist.
Like I said but anyway back to your point. When I go out my openers are usually not geared towards "you're beatiful" or desperado since you can't build a convo on that jazz.
That's where I agree with your point. I never call a girl hot, if I call her gorgeous it is during a text like Hey Gorgeous blah blah blah but I guess this post is helpful since that is kinda weird for a first text (so maybe I won't do it no more).
Anywho good post I'll try to remember that and yes I do get way more attention being a natural opposed to commenting on a girl's looks especially on facebook and the other guys do it over and over even I get sick of it.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.