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Thread: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEARANC

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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    To add to what Will wisely worded (alliteration!) about compliments, they are definitely useful for "training" a girl (past the opening stage). People like positive encouragement and feeling validated and appreciated. If a girl buys you something or does something nice for you, definitely compliment her. That will make her feel good about doing it, and she will associate those good feelings with doing nice things for you, so she will be more likely to do nice things for you in the future.

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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    interesting point, the clue is ...when you have hight confidence.thank you dude.

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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    basic mistakes we all have done sometime , but a MUST remember! important to have this tips in mind.

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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    calibration is key here. Yes you can compliment a girl on her looks, yes sometimes it isn't what you should be doing.. But if there is a cute shy girl (my fucking favorite kind of girl) I always complement on her look both during the first initial interaction (going up and telling her she is beautiful), and when she comes over for a bedroom date. First thing I say is hey whatsup you look very cute .

    That being said. With the really hot girls, it depends. The bitchy party 10's which are awesome to take home, I neg her in the most jokingly way possible to stick out. I will tease her with something like "you are so lucky I find you halfway cute". This yields the same reaction 99% of the time. "Halfway cute???!!" I always respond with a cheesy smile and turn around with some negative body language. Delivered properly really is a killer for those types of girls.


    Would you vice versa these two tactics?
    NO WAY

    You would shoot yourself in the foot doing the opposite on the other girl.

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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    Quote Originally Posted by acuriousman View Post
    When you start complimenting a girl's appearance (Saying she's beautiful, cute, has great legs, etc) and you haven't f-closed her yet, you're DIMINISHING your value.


    She hears those kinds of comments all the time, especially if she's a HB9 or HB10. These kinds of girls are tired of hearing how beautiful they are and they don't need to hear it from you.


    THEY ALREADY KNOW.


    These are the type of comments that make you seem like every other "Average Joe" that tries and fails to talk to her. They always open or give a compliment about her physical appearance within the first 10 minutes. You don't want to be bunched in with them, you want to stand out and let her see that you can appreciate her on MORE than just a physical level.


    That isn't to say don't compliment her, but ALWAYS keep it about things that aren't physical. Her sense of humor, style, and ability to make you laugh are great examples.


    TLDR: Never compliment a woman on her physical traits until you've already slept with her. It hurts you more than it helps and it's an outdated/inefficient tactic. Keep compliments strictly about things they've accomplished (Their sense of style, humor, etc).

    I would generally say I agree with this 100% more or less. Very keen insight after all my Facebook is overloaded with hot chicks getting called hot everyday. Comments they NEVER respond to.

    What does this tell you?

    When a HB9 or HB10 has 10 guys hit her up on a post. She is either going to
    A. Comment on the funny post
    B. Comment on someone she has prior relationship with
    C. Comment on something she has a connection with or curiosity about but like clockwork....
    SHE NEVER RESPONDS TO A FLOOD OF ATTENTION LIKE
    "Oh you're sooo hot"
    "Beauitful"
    "Come over"
    "Marry me"
    "I love you"



    I try not to be overly entertaining after all it is Facebook for that matter and I don't count it as a credible stream of poon. Though I have tried many times I still see it only as a fun thing or a game. Anyway not to say I haven't come close it's just I'm way better in-field like Superman and on Facebook well I am like Clark Kent. I feel like no one notices me there (due to the non-obligation to online activities) and the guys that do get noticed are just more than likely being obsessed or a mess. I am not going desperado on facebook like ever so I let the other chums have at it and I just do it for fun.

    But when I get in-field the training gloves are off and I am fully present in the moment and killing it every night going out getting the results I want. Done 150 approaches now with 45 phone numbers so my conversion rate is about 30% but some (roughly 20%) I didn't close on purpose with intention so that number should actually be higher since I should get credit for only actual n-close attempts

    Either way had a girlfriend every year (especially) Summer since I became a Pick Up Artist.

    Like I said but anyway back to your point. When I go out my openers are usually not geared towards "you're beatiful" or desperado since you can't build a convo on that jazz.

    That's where I agree with your point. I never call a girl hot, if I call her gorgeous it is during a text like Hey Gorgeous blah blah blah but I guess this post is helpful since that is kinda weird for a first text (so maybe I won't do it no more).

    Anywho good post I'll try to remember that and yes I do get way more attention being a natural opposed to commenting on a girl's looks especially on facebook and the other guys do it over and over even I get sick of it.
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    Default Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA

    In person and online is totally different. Don't ever compliment a woman on her looks online. In real life it's totally fine as long as it's genuine and you have the confidence to back it up. It doesn't matter if she's a 6 or a 10. It all depends on how you deliver it and what you expect. If you expect nothing it will go very well. That's confidence.


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