Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make: STOP COMPLIMENTING HER PHYSICAL APPEA
I would agree with you to an extent. Yes, girls don't like it when someone says comments on their legs, butt, whatever. They do get enough of that. What you can do is politely complement them in a non-sexual way. Here are some examples to show what I mean:
"Wow, that dress really complements your hair!"
"Those shoes look amazing! Where did you get them?"
"Your earrings really bring out your eyes"
Now, stuff like that is what girls really appreciate. They put a lot of time and effort into looking nice in public, and when someone notices the very small things they do to look nice, they feel rewarded and more confident in themselves. Also, compliments like that prevent you from coming across as a jerk.
Yes, a typical party girl won't care what kind of comment you make about her, but the more sophisticated women will appreciate these kinds of non-sexualized compliments.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X