I seem to have this weird problem. I can walk up to any girl, say whatever you want me to say.. if i want to, i can #-close and if im really on fire, i could probably k-close.
but after the first date, i feel like the girl never wants to see me again.. we dont have awkward silences, always talk about something, smile a lot, eat, walk.. and i sometimes end up getting a quick kiss on the lips (quick.. like muah and bye) and then i feel like that's it, game over.
the other day, i got a model to go out with and she asked if her 2 model friends could join and if i could bring 2 guys to hook them up.. so great! i did.. everything seemed awesome.. i was with my girl, the boys were with their girls (that i assigned to them lol) and good to go. but my buddy was doing better than me even though he is usually scared approaching girls but he knows how to talk and keep everything going.
he is cocky like big time and some girls hate that and i let him know that but i guess those 3 girls loved it.. anyways, what im trying to ask is, why can i easily get the girl, get approval from her friends (that we are good) and not being able to even k-close properly?
i mean, we were walking, i put my arm around her waist, 80% of the time we were walking, she was on heels complaining all the time that she cant walk.. we played the cube game and she enjoyed it, but i just felt this weird distance between us. at one point when we were stopped, i said "give me a kiss"
me: "ok, your loss :b"
her: "not now.." (her friends were around which is reasonable)