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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    This is a disqualifier I stole from somewhere. As a general rule I like to throw this in each set as a reverse psychology thing to get girl chasing me, anyway here it is:
    me: I don't think I'm your type
    HB: What do u mean?*puzzle look*
    me: I'm the type of guy your mom warned u about when u were young n innocent, playing princess or brushing ur toy pony. I girl like u should date a nice guy like that *here a put my arm around her n point to the ugliest guy nearby, most of the time she'll be like "no!" and move in closer to me*

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    Also I great fun disqualifier and easier than the above post:
    me: "Your adorable! You remind me of my adorable bratty little sister! Matter of fact I'm going to adopt you as my little sister and we can bake mud cookies and claim trees together!"
    make sure use this before any sexual Tension is built or else it'll be weird.

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    Dame it! I just thought of another disqualifier thats very commen in the pua community, but I may have modified a little.

    Again only use these disqualifier before ther theres sexual Tension or before the set is hooked.

    me:I'm gay, but if I wasn't you would so be mine.

    *if she says she doesn't think you're gay you can say-me: What? you think your sexy enough you can convert a gay guy? You think you can rock my world?*

    *if she she agrees n saids you are gay(shit test) you can say-mer: jk I'm not really gay...but my boyfriend is*

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    Cool Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    (Here's a technique for improving your inner game. It's called the Ideal Self Technique. It's done wonders for me.)

    Disclaimer: I do not claim to be a master PUA or and expert on getting girls. I am merely a man with a story. The story of a shy middle schooler who tried on so many masks to get friends that he forgot who he really was, and how that kid turned into the man he always wanted to be.

    I'm going to jump straight to the point. The only reason you should read this post is because you are unhappy with who you are at some level. It's a very common and very serious problem. And until you learn how to beat it your game, no matter how well rehearsed, will suffer. The truth is you can't expect a girl to like you if you don't like yourself. Women can sense this insecurity, and it will turn them off. So what do you do?

    First, we have to look at the problem. You aren't satisfied with your personality. The only solutions are to either change your view of yourself, which is very hard to do, or you can change yourself, which is much easier. I know, that sounds backwards, but it's true. To understand why, we need a basic understanding of Fruedian psychology. According to his theories, the human psyche consists of three parts; the id, the ego, and the superego. The id houses your basic animalistic desires. The superego contains your moral code and behavioral expectations. The ego tries to balance the two within the confines of reality. Now, your view of what a man (specifically you) should beady like is rooted in your superego. The superego is largely subconscious and develops in the early stages of human development. It's not easy to tweak. Your personality, on the other hand, is based largely out of the ego, which is mostly conscious. And because it is subject to rationalization, it's easier to change. But how Do you go about changing your personality?

    There's an old saying. "Fake it till you make it". It revolves around the concept of habits. Do something enough, and you begin to form habits and eventually it becomes second nature. That's the key to the Ideal Self theory, or as I affectionately call it, the "New You List". Here are the steps.

    1. Clear your mind. Forget everyone else. All that matters is you and what you want. If you try to base your new personality on what other people want you to be, you will fall into the trap of people pleasing. Be completely honest with yourself. The trick is to idealize the best "you" you can be, not to become someone else entirely.
    2. Start thinking. Who do you want to be? Expand and polish you best features and minimize or eliminate your weaknesses. Ex. When I made my list, I was incredibly shy, so an important trait for my new personality was to be more confident and charismatic.
    3. Write it down. Make a list of all the traits you want your "new you" to have. Feel free to borrow traits from people you idolize, real or fictional. (warning: remember step 1) It can be anything from "comfortable in my own skin" to "knows how to play an instrument".
    4. Make copies. Copy this list to as many different places as you can. Save it on your computer, take a picture of it on your phone, put it on your refrigerator, text it to yourself, frame it. Whatever it takes to make sure you don't lose it. The more copies, the easier step 5 will be.
    5. Fake it. You have to start acting like the man described on your list. Even if you're not confident, pretend you are. It's method acting to the extreme. This is your new personality now, and you have to break it in like a new pair of shoes. It'll be hard at first, but don't give up. For things you can't fake, like new skills, start learning as fast as possible. Even if you don't play guitar, carry one around with you or take it on trips. Why? Because the new your does (and eventually will) play guitar. To make this easier, read the list every morning when you wake up, then again when you go to work, then again when you go to lunch, and again when you head to the gym, and again when you go out to dinner with that cute 8 you asked out on the street cause that's just what the new you does, and one last time before going off to bed. Constantly be reminding yourself.
    6. Make it. After a while, your new personality will stop being an act. It'll be who you are. You'll be that charming, sociable, Spanish speaking stud you always wanted to be. Congratulations. If you did everything right, then you've just transformed yourself into your ideal self.
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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    I've used this as an opener, as well as after we've been chatting for a few minutes....

    You ask her a series of simple 'make a choice' questions: "OK, you have 3 seconds to answer... Pizza or tacos?"
    If she says, "pizza" follow up with- "New York style, or Chicago deep dish?"
    If she says "tacos" follow up with "Soft shell or hard shell?"

    Then something like: "regular or decaf" & so on...

    Sometimes, you'll catch her off guard & she'll be confused. This is also lots of fun!

    Here's an example of how I used it as an opener. (Without saying "3 seconds to answer") And the girl wasn't sure what was going on at first.

    Me: "Pizza or tacos?"
    *puzzled look* "What??"
    "Pizza or tacos?"
    "what do you mean?"
    "What do you mean, what do I mean? Pizza or tacos?"..
    *then looking at her friends, I ask them: "Does she always have trouble understanding simple questions?" (as I nudge my target with my elbow & smile / wink, while I say it, cluing her in that I'm razzing her)
    So, I say, "OK, let's try this again; pick one, pizza or tacos?".... etc...

    It got the whole table of girls laughing & I had their full attention because, it was so different from the "usual" boring things guys say to them.

    So, after a couple minutes of this I said, "Ya know, you girls are definitely a hoot! I wish I could sit here & hang out with Y'all a little longer, but I have to bail... I promised my friends I'd meet them at (insert any different location). Let me go outside & call them real quick & see what their status is, maybe I've got a few more minutes." (Then I gave them a smile & a little wink).

    I go outside, pretend to make a call & a few min later I go back in the club... but I walk right past them. (That jacked them ALL up!! LOL) They watched to see where I was going, which happened to be the restroom.
    After I left the restroom I went to the bar, ordered a coke & chatted with the bartender for a minute. THEN, I walked back to their table & sat down, telling them. "Sweet! Of course, they're running late because Matt's girlfriend LISA, is still doing her hair & makeup, so they'll be a while, haha!".

    Of course, there WAS NO Matt & Lisa & I wasn't meeting anyone... but THEY didn't know that.

    All in all it was a really cool night!

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    Hey GnG, this is a great guide, it's helped me out a lot. I just moved to a fairly large city and using your guide I've had no problem texting. I used to not be any good at it. Thanks

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    I've found that a really good way to get girls to approach u is to hang around in the smoking area at a club for a bit, normally HBs approach to ask for a lighter....I personally think they don't take lighters soo they have an excuse to do this, anyways when a HB asks for a lighter pull out some cool funky looking lighter, I have a bright pink zippo, they usually comment or laugh at it or something and u can then engage in conversation and transition to whatever you want.

    Linkin x

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    Thanks for your advice man.. will work on it. cheers

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    Hey guys, awesome thread.

    Let me contribute with something small, here's a Push Pull technique i did on accident but has worked great for me since then.

    When you're gaming in a loud club and with a girl already.

    Have fun, start to dance. Grab her hand and give her a spin (If she doesn't comply tell her shes a party pooper and no fun, girls love to dance and will only deny if you're being to direct).

    After you spun her once, QUICKLY grab her other hand, hold both of them at chest level, look into her eyes and smile. If you do everything well and you're quick confident and decently looking she will be surprised in a good way and smile.

    Now don't hold the gaze for more than 2-5 seconds, as she smiles throw both her hands away gently and keep partying.

    This triggers a sort of wtf just happened?/Don't leave me! response that girls love. I've had three girls immediately grab my arm after i threw her hands away and of course everything went great from there .

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    Default Re: Ultimate Arsenal

    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpill View Post
    This is a disqualifier I stole from somewhere. As a general rule I like to throw this in each set as a reverse psychology thing to get girl chasing me, anyway here it is:
    me: I don't think I'm your type
    HB: What do u mean?*puzzle look*
    me: I'm the type of guy your mom warned u about when u were young n innocent, playing princess or brushing ur toy pony. I girl like u should date a nice guy like that *here a put my arm around her n point to the ugliest guy nearby, most of the time she'll be like "no!" and move in closer to me*
    Just a spin on this i've used infield.

    When winging for a friend early on i've said:
    Me: "Hey, just a quick warning. You remember all those bad boys you're mom warned you about? She was talking about (your wings name), be careful around him"
    Her: *Smiles*


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