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    Default xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    I came up with this routine the same way I do others: from real life experience.

    Background Story:

    I was at a cafe/library studying. Then my girl friend, HB 6, comes over says hi how are you?.... The usual Fluff talk. Then she said I'm going to the cafe part to work on a project with my friends. After I'm finished studying, I realize that after a long study session I want to approach a girl. I didn't care how hot she was, how old, blond, brunette red head... I just knew I was in the mood for female companionship, the sort of female companionship that gives you IOI's, seeks your approval and touches you. So I get up and go see my friend hoping she has another girl friend with her. I see her with an HB 8. As I approach their table I hear her say "I don't know, I'm afraid".

    Xavier: What are you afraid of ?

    Friend: That's Xavier he's my friend from German class

    HB 8: We're taking the GMAT and I'm afraid I won't do so well

    Xavier: Haven't you studied enough ?

    HB 8: Yeah I did

    Xavier: So there is no reason to be scared, just do your best

    Friend: It's easy for you to say, you don't have to take it

    Xavier: I'm pretty sure I've taken tests before dear, and I'm pretty sure you have too so think of it as another test. I don't get you women and your emotions .

    Dear all, I only meant this as a joke, I am not a sexist, but after you see what happens next, it is understandable you would want to be .

    HB 8: That was a sexist comment

    Xavier: What was ?

    HB 8: The fact that we're more emotional and afraid of a test because we're women

    This was a golden opportunity to challenge and get the interest going so I took it.

    Xavier: That is true, generally women are more emotional than men

    Friend: Your such an asshole do you know that ?

    Xavier: Awww I like our friendship too, but seriously as you may or may not know there are receptors in the brain that catch body language and shit like that. Tests show women have
    22 ... men have 7. Don't you think that means anything ?

    HB 8: That doesn't mean that we can't do the things you do.

    Xavier: I never said you couldn't I just said we're different, in my own asshole way - while I pinch my friend's shoulder.

    I never considered that before I never thought I was a sexist, I just thought that being a sexist meant that you think you have the right to disrespect women just because you are a man, and I never did that.

    I'm going to spare you the rest of the conversation and tell you I added her on FB and we've been talking on a regular basis. I'm gonna ask her out in a couple of days.

    The opener is :

    Hi ! Did you know I'm a sexist ... and follow up with the story. It's worked well for me. Hope it does for you. Just remember to stand by the fact that men and women are different and that they act differently in the midst of the conversation you can throw in stories about your experiences with women and dhv yourself by stressing the fact that you respect women and you think it's unfair they get paid less, aren't respected...


    It will work for you as it has for me !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    You: *insulting stuff*
    Woman 1: "That's sexist."
    Woman 2: "You're an asshole."
    You: *I just had a great conversation"

    Rather cringe-worthy if you ask me. A shame cause they seemed into you, next time, ask what the girl is taking the GMAT for.

    "Friend: It's easy for you to say, you don't have to take it"
    Perfect opportunity for exactly that question.

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    Thanks dude, but I know my shit and am in need of no one's help. This is an opener for people to use.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    ask what the girl is taking the GMAT for.
    And lump yourself in with all the other chumps that ask boring questions!

    I added her on FB and we've been talking on a regular basis.
    Nuff said!!

    Imo it's a good example of frame control and how to handle the shit test. Although it would have been interesting to see the rest of the conversation to witness at which point she actually bought into your ideas and stopped arguing lol

    This is also why there is a rep system

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    Dude I forget, I really do, i never could understand how others remember everything !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    I like this opener. I'm going to use it in an exercise

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    I don't know if what you said was because you truly believed it or because you thought it was going to create an opportunity to challenge and get the interest going. If it's the latter than it sounds a bit like manipulation. Either way you demonstrated confidence and kept your shit together during a slippery moment. If there's any lesson here I hope it's that you weren't being manipulative just to get a girl, and that instead you were real with yourself and that you defended your position, regardless of how others perceived you. And I think that's the key. To be real to yourself. And everything else you ever wanted will fall into place. Cause otherwise you're gonna have shit you really will not want falling all over you.

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    Default Re: xavier's a sexist? DHV - Opener

    Honestly, I had and have no opinion about it I just took the opportunity to challenge. It's not manipulation man, even if it were it's okay people have been manipulating people for millions of years it's not about to change anytime soon.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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