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    Default Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Hey guys...

    So I'm in my last semester of undergrad and need some help landing this girl ASAP. So we share this class together where I've been smart enough to land a seat next to her daily (twice a week the class meets), and we talk on and off before and during class. I sit next to her everyday, we joke and laugh but the moment it break talking to my friend on the other side who has a girlfriend by the way. Luckily we are all in the same group for a project this semester, I planned that on purpose. I'm trying to figure out I just hang out with her up until the point that we actually have an assignment or an exam. Even then, the moment class is over she walks away. I'm trying to cross over the touch barrier, but it has been a few weeks already in this class I haven't done anything crazy. I'm not trying to make the whole class aware of my intentions either. When we are not talking I am usually on my computer checking emails or browsing the web. I have an internship 5 days a week and come to school dressed up professionally everyday (.business casual). I know she is trying to moved to La after graduation in hopes of finding a job. I feel I need to act fast if I want anything now. I just need help stimulating her in order to move further. I am very outgoing and direct with my intentions, people know that, I just for some reason don't act the same way when I'm trying to engage a girl.

    All tips are welcome in this type of situation thank you. I have class with her today, so I'd love to try something out ASAP thanks.

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    I don't have much time to give you a detailed response but I have ALLOT of experience with classroom game.

    1. You getting a seat next to her really isn't a smart move unless it was by total accident (like you were already siting there before she came in). Allot of guys purposely do this and attractive girls know this. Also, purposely trying to be in her group isn't the best thing either. Besides that I won't belabor those points.

    2. I wrote a thread on classroom game located here https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...room-game.html Read it. I have never had an attractive woman NOT like me after doing this. It works.

    3. I don't remember if I mentioned this in the above thread but you should definitely be shushing her occasionally if she talks to you during class (when you should be paying attention). I take my learning seriously and when a girl tries to talk to me when the professor is talking I'll give her very strong eye contact and whisper "Shh. I'm trying to learn." I mean it, and they know it. It turns all kinds of attraction switches with them because a guy never does that to a beautiful woman (although he WOULD do it to a woman he wasn't interested in).

    4. It's your last semester. Make a move!

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    ^^Thanks. Luckily, #2 I have been doing to a great extent this semester in this class and my other one right before, both of which have a nice pool to choose from. I have noticed it working to a degree since, I just didn't act on the eye contact hard enough I feel since I was first to break eye contact from across the room (stupid move I know).

    To clear up something... Since I go to a private university in the Bay Area, Saint Mary's College to be exact, we are a school of only 4,000 undergrads, so especially with upper division classes in your concentration Senior year, everyone knows everyone to a degree. The girl I sat next to, we already knew each other from the past two Marketing classes from prior semesters, we just never really talked. She was sitting next to my two friend's (both of which have gfs), so I sat on the other side of her like nothing out of the ordinary first day. Another friend of mine and this girl's, sat in front of us, so I formed the group of 5 instantaneously without anyone else really saying anything. We all were satisfied with this pairing since we all knew each other's work habits and get along. Definitely didn't make it obvious why I put her in my group.

    My only real concern is that she's always texting someone. (I peeked once without her knowing. Peripheral vision does wonders.) At that time I don't think it was a guy, but whatever, I'm going to assume she's just texting friends. Also, she's friendly, but to get her attention, I have to start the conversation, which is nbd, I just feel there should be some sort of return. She always laughs when I joke around, even when I respond to the professor's question with a serious answer but in a joking form. She gives me eye contact when I look at her, but I feel like if there was something more there, she would instigate back.

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Here is the truth whether you want it or not:

    SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU !

    Not yet at least:

    - Strong eye contact may mean strong self confidence. It may mean she's comfortable around you but that doesn't mean she wants you.

    - She laughs so what? You are the cool, fun guy in class.

    - You have a project together? Fuck that! It means shit.

    - She walks away as soon as class ends? She has shit to do and you are not on the list of stuff she's doing!

    - She texts people ? Hot girls are wanted by other men, to fuck and women, to introduce them to hot guys or whatever.

    You can do shit to build attraction, but why ? Just find a girl that wants you to fuck her!!!

    P.S.: Class is for learning !! You need a degree and good grades ! Don't be an idiot and ruin it ! Succeeding in life is more important than girls ! I don't want to repeat myself !
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    Here is the truth whether you want it or not:

    SHE DOES NOT WANT YOU !

    Not yet at least:

    - Strong eye contact may mean strong self confidence. It may mean she's comfortable around you but that doesn't mean she wants you.

    - She laughs so what? You are the cool, fun guy in class.

    - You have a project together? Fuck that! It means shit.

    - She walks away as soon as class ends? She has shit to do and you are not on the list of stuff she's doing!

    - She texts people ? Hot girls are wanted by other men, to fuck and women, to introduce them to hot guys or whatever.

    You can do shit to build attraction, but why ? Just find a girl that wants you to fuck her!!!

    P.S.: Class is for learning !! You need a degree and good grades ! Don't be an idiot and ruin it ! Succeeding in life is more important than girls ! I don't want to repeat myself !
    Thanks. Yes grades are my top priority, and I am at the top of my classes consistently. I had a strong feeling all along that everything you just stated is 100% accurate. I was just looking for a way to either change the situation, or use this as a learning experience for my next encounter.

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Look man attraction happens or it doesn't. You can build it with trigger words and routines, but it won't be real. She won't be attracted to you just who you pretend to be. Why do that? Just find a girl that is already hot for you.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Thanks, but I think you are reading a little too far into this. like I said I am very direct have no problem being outgoing with people, so I don't need to fake anything to get what I want. I think my bigger problem is that I and doing something wrong in the attraction level because I think most of the time I'm more of a friend and I'm talking about situations all the time not just this one. I haven't ever had a girlfriend, but 90% of people nor would they eink think that.

    Basically, I know I'm clearly doing something wrong each time I encounter a girl I want to pursue, but there must be something very minor I'm always missing out that's the deal breaker. I'm just trying to get something out of these last few months of undergrad because I feel like I missed out on a lot, and I won't have this many opportunities sitting in my lap as easily.

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    46m ..... as you probably know, there is a process to the game ..... first rule after meeting is building attraction by being funny, bold, and flirty, attraction can take place in the first 10 minutes but with no attraction and then building rapport, a feeling of mutual trust and connection, you will always be a friend ...... learn to flirt and flirt
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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    46m ..... as you probably know, there is a process to the game ..... first rule after meeting is building attraction by being funny, bold, and flirty, attraction can take place in the first 10 minutes but with no attraction and then building rapport, a feeling of mutual trust and connection, you will always be a friend ...... learn to flirt and flirt
    Yes, that is exactly my problem. I basicslly need a strategy for flirting casually within the classroom environment without being deemed creepy. Something oriented toward the goal of building attraction, but at the same time, allows an escape route just in case my intentions are misinterpreted.

    there are so few opportunities outside the classroom to meet these chicks at my school that I would need to cold approach women outside of class which is much harder.
    Just curious what you guys I've done in the classroom environment in order to flirt with a girl that has worked in the past. I just need a fuel in and I can figure out the rest, I'm just sick of all the opportunities that haven't worked and I want to change that now.

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    Default Re: Last Semester of Undergrad Need Help Landing Girl ASAP

    Direct is Best had a link on classroom game https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...room-game.html check that out, I can't say anything because I was a total AFC in college
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