I wanna hear what you think about this situation. I often run into a situation, where a girl is tired or low energy. I tried a method of just present value value value until she is trying to prove herself, but it sets a crap frame. (I got this from Mehow)
So it would be like this
Pua: Hey whats up!
HB: uhh I dunno!
Pua: I am so fantastic I just sold my company and I am totally, happily living like a rock star!
HB: oh ok
Pua: Now days, I just sit and paint like, ed hardy, or tatoo art, or comic book art on guitars and sell them at pawn shops! My goal is to see a real rock star with one!
Hb: Oh ok
Pua: You are so boring! Check this out, last week we were skiing on my friends boat, actually it was my boat, but he bought, those things are way to much work! Good Riddance, but I swear to god, while we were skiing I saw a shark! It was crazy!
Pua: If you see a shark, you have to punch him the nose!
This had like a 25% success rate. Awful.
So I tried the
Pua: Uh hello! Your energy is right here (show her with my hand, chest level), now little girl, I need you to bring it up to about here (hand over head).
This had like 50% success rate, but was consistent with that.
So we have been playing with this, I call it the ping-pong-drop
Basically, you say something high emotional value, she reacts low energy, and you ignore her.
Pua: I can so see you surfing on a moon lake! (ping)
HB: I wouldnt do that.. (pong)
Pua: what...oh ok (drop)
and then it goes like this, hopefully.
HB: Hey! did you hear me!
Pua: Oh my god! Are you yelling at me! Come here you little rebel! Nobody talks to me like that, I like you!
This had a much higher success rate, but we started adding "the vaccuum" on the "what..oh ok"
and it raised it even more, we have only done this on two nights, searching for these girls for about an hour per night, it had, maybe an 80% success rate. But 80% isn't good enough, and it doesnt feel completely solid, because they sometimes just wont bite.
It easier in a bigger set, cause you can just vibe off the high energy people, until her energy raises up to us, but in a 1 set or 2 set, you can have no high energy people. (with wing its much easier)
What is your method for dealing with low energy girls?