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    Default why is she acting like this?

    we went on a triple date, i guess i was too touchy and clingy so she kind of backed off.. okay i killed it. i text her lets go hang out either this or that day and she responded with "im busy the weekend, kid." i was like wtf.. aite, deleted her number. but on facebook i still had her (she added me before the date) and today i go on and she deleted me.. (i havent talked to her since the text she sent me which was like a week ago) why would she act like this though? i mean, not that i care i just want to understand.. i didnt insult her, made fun of her, made her feel bad or anything, so wtf is her problem? me not calling her after calling me a kid?

    edit: i forgot to add, today a girl that a new back 3 years ago chat with me for a bit and she was flirting with me, and she said she is in love with me (we live like 24 hours flight from each other) and she asked if she could add us as in a relationship status on facebook.. so i thought, that will make a lot of girls jealous lol so i said, yeah sure.. and we joked around how i want my gf to be able to cook and the rest.. and she laughed and said that she can do all that.. but obviously its all a joke and not for real. i guess that first girl deleted me cuz she was like "k no chance for me now.." what do you think?

    should i re-add her on facebook and ask whats happening?
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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    NO dont you dare add her again. i can smell bitch from miles away, just save yourself from the drama.

    BTW putting your status as being in a relationship is not a good idea. some girls are just to stuck up and will immediately throw you into just friends status.

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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by prjav View Post
    NO dont you dare add her again. i can smell bitch from miles away, just save yourself from the drama.

    BTW putting your status as being in a relationship is not a good idea. some girls are just to stuck up and will immediately throw you into just friends status.
    yeah i see your point. fuck er.

    and as i said, the other girl add me as her bf on facebook and i just accepted thinking that other chicks will get jealous.. so far i got like 13 comments.. half saying 'wtf' half say congrats
    i mean, if she ever comes to visit me for real, thats a st8 fuck but do you think that it will turn down others? i mean, girls like what they cant have or if its taken away right?!

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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    I'm going to play devil's advocate here. I think the reason she did this is because you've demonstrated a lower value as you've stated. You showed clinginess and her woman filter came on instantly.

    It depends how much you want to game this girl. If you still want to play around to test how far you can push things, I'd wait 2-3 weeks and text her back and start all over again. You could use one of bill's killer text lines to restart the convo (I've used it on Girl A from my day game thread which works like wonders).

    In fact, girls that pose a challenge seem to intrigue me more now than when I was a newbie. The reward is so much higher if you can turn the girl around from hating you to thinking you're the hot stuff!

    If you feel a bit sketchy about this, you can certainly leave her for a while and come back to her while you're gaming other girls to gain more experience. As Gunsnglory and Style says, if it fails, you have no one but yourself to blame. Work hard and improve with each failure. One day, you will be able to game them back.

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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe View Post
    I'm going to play devil's advocate here. I think the reason she did this is because you've demonstrated a lower value as you've stated. You showed clinginess and her woman filter came on instantly.

    It depends how much you want to game this girl. If you still want to play around to test how far you can push things, I'd wait 2-3 weeks and text her back and start all over again. You could use one of bill's killer text lines to restart the convo (I've used it on Girl A from my day game thread which works like wonders).

    In fact, girls that pose a challenge seem to intrigue me more now than when I was a newbie. The reward is so much higher if you can turn the girl around from hating you to thinking you're the hot stuff!

    If you feel a bit sketchy about this, you can certainly leave her for a while and come back to her while you're gaming other girls to gain more experience. As Gunsnglory and Style says, if it fails, you have no one but yourself to blame. Work hard and improve with each failure. One day, you will be able to game them back.
    nicely said! ill do that. btw where is that text you where talking about? (bill's killer text lines)

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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    I can't find the link to it anymore, maybe bill can post the link here if he sees this but this is pretty much how it goes:

    Did you hear? Aliens are coming to earth to abduct cuties! You'll be alright, I'm just here to say my goodbyes.

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    Default Re: why is she acting like this?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystery_wannabe View Post
    I can't find the link to it anymore, maybe bill can post the link here if he sees this but this is pretty much how it goes:

    Did you hear? Aliens are coming to earth to abduct cuties! You'll be alright, I'm just here to say my goodbyes.
    oh i know that one.. guess i will give it a try in a week or so. but im 90% sure i wont get her back but why not.. i got nothing to lose


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