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Thread: How to Neg a single set.... please give examples!

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    Question How to Neg a single set.... please give examples!

    I was in a set with only one girl in it and I got stumped as to how to neg......... Do you guys have any negs to use on a single set! Please help

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    Default Re: How to Neg a single set.... please give examples!

    In my learning experience here I found the following steps to work better than just negs:

    disqualify first (she is not ur type)
    Qualify + disqualify (she is a cool girl but in a dorky way)
    Finally qualify but with Kino Escalation (nothing about physical beauty though until u have f-closed)

    The disqualify is a sort of neg but shows u are actively listening to what she says and being honest about how you feel about things she is talking about.

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    Default Re: How to Neg a single set.... please give examples!

    Rom is right, a neg shouldn't really be negative but rather a push. Picture it in your head as you are lightly pushing someone away from you, giving space between you, making them want to close that space again because they are interested.

    A physical way to do this when you are at a bar is to talk lightly so the person has to lean in, then physically give them a little push on the shoulder, while saying something like "you are crazy" but then continuing making her have to move closer to hear you. This back/forth, push/pull leads her mind into believing she has already made her choice.

    It's the same way with stating a neg, and Rom, I have to tell you that is a great way of doing it.
    Cool girl but in a dorky way
    The key operating word in that is but, when you say BUT after a positive, it will make what comes after register as a negative, but if you say something not considered a negative, it will be taken differently, still as a neg but will not trigger a social response required if you said something like she was a bitch for example.

    I like ending on a positive note so I might say something like this,
    I'm still trying to decide if you are hot!
    This gives her a challenge to live up to, something to try to be. And you might be surprised how many women might say they don't want a guy to think of them as being hot, but when you say it in such a way that it makes "hot" sound like a valuable trait to have, they will all the sudden start behaving as if they are hot. This also works with other things like, lets say how you want a woman to be in bed. You might say something like, I am still trying to decide if you are the type of girl who can let go of all the social norms, and just be a total.......... in bed.

    Anyway, loved your positive neg Rom, nice job on that score!

    c...

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    Default Re: How to Neg a single set.... please give examples!

    I have to tell you guys you guys GAVE ME so much .......... thanks guys! especially the negs: I am still deciding if you are good girl or not. and the SET UP: I am still deciding if you are the type of girl that i should hang out this weekend! (it's like a hypnotic comman) wow guys


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