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  1. #1
    compgeni Guest

    Default OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including roomates

    Ever sence I've been discovering this stuff I've been working on Game. It's been changing my life.

    Short Background:
    As a little kid I was naturally very friendly and have no problems with confidence and approaches. Even in middle school I had girlfriends. Then in HS I lost it and didn't talk to anyone, literally going to the bathroom for lunch. I'm out of that now thanks to studying pickup getting into inner game. I can still approach anyone and talk about almost anything if only for short periods.

    Situation:
    I've got girls that like me at verrying degrees. That part is wicked easy. It's time to start practicing and going further. I think I can handle most girls in "regular" situations. I've gotten numbers. More to come on that later, I'm focusing on a particular challenge that test my skills the most.

    Particular Challenge:
    A girl, Girl A, comes into my store (I work as a customer service rep). I know she likes me, she compliments me and even took the time to introduce herself. I never really talk to her on a personal level, there is not always alot of time to do so. Occasionally, her room mate comes in as well by herself. I tell the roommate 'tell girl a she has the poorest sence of timing'. Roommate laughs, and sais she would. This tells me a couple things. 1) I'm right, girl a likes me. 2) They talk, roommate knows. 3) Girl A likely comes in to see me (and discuss her technical issues, but I've seen her more and more recently)

    I need ideas to proceed without showing too much interest. I also can't really do a proper time bridge in this situation because of varying schedules and little interaction time. I was thinking a very direct give me your number approach and calling her later to do.....what? Lets get those creative juices flowing, what should I do?
    Last edited by compgeni; 02-28-2010 at 02:24 AM.

  2. #2
    Mystery_wannabe Guest

    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    Quote Originally Posted by compgeni View Post
    Ever sence I've been discovering this stuff I've been working on Game. It's been changing my life.

    Short Background:
    As a little kid I was naturally very friendly and have no problems with confidence and approaches. Even in middle school I had girlfriends. Then in HS I lost it and didn't talk to anyone, literally going to the bathroom for lunch. I'm out of that now thanks to studying pickup getting into inner game. I can still approach anyone and talk about almost anything if only for short periods.

    Situation:
    I've got girls that like me at verrying degrees. That part is wicked easy. It's time to start practicing and going further. I think I can handle most girls in "regular" situations. I've gotten numbers. More to come on that later, I'm focusing on a particular challenge that test my skills the most.

    Particular Challenge:
    A girl, Girl A, comes into my store (I work as a customer service rep). I know she likes me, she compliments me and even took the time to introduce herself. I never really talk to her on a personal level, there is not always alot of time to do so. Occasionally, her room mate comes in as well by herself. I tell the roommate 'tell girl a she has the poorest sence of timing'. Roommate laughs, and sais she would. This tells me a couple things. 1) I'm right, girl a likes me. 2) They talk, roommate knows. 3) Girl A likely comes in to see me (and discuss her technical issues, but I've seen her more and more recently)

    I need ideas to proceed without showing too much interest. I also can't really do a proper time bridge in this situation because of varying schedules and little interaction time. I was thinking a very direct give me your number approach and calling her later to do.....what? Lets get those creative juices flowing, what should I do?
    If you have 100% certainty that she likes I'd go Direct Game. You no longer need to beat around the bushes. In-direct game is only used so it's harder to get rejected right off the bat.

    You can say "hey, I see you all the time, but I never had a chance to get to know you better. You seem interesting. Here, put your number here (give her your cell phone) and we'll go for a coffee sometime."

    Use time constraint to end it off nicely -> "I gotta get back to work, I'll call you soon" and take your leave.

    Note: please make sure you are really going to do it if you say you will call. She will be anticipating for your call.

  3. #3
    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    I had hoped it would be that simple. Thanks!

    I need to practice game too so I got to get out.

    She came in my store today, fist time I've seen her sence I spoke with the roomate. I'm prety astute. She was nervous and shy and all over the place. Coy. Sadly, I didn't say much and she left fairly quickly to escape the pressure most likely.

    I'll either talk to her, or practice game on someone else. Well, both.

  4. #4
    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    Well, I blew myself out.

    She approached and tried to talk to be about a toy for her nephew. She asked me if I thought she should buy it and if he might like it..etc. She scened I was not near as confident and in control as I normally am and I have not seen her sence. I was taken aback that she was asking my opinion on a product she didn't care about or buy. I should have cut that thread and started my own instead of going 'oh she wants to talk about that.. what's she doing, crap! What do I do now?'

    Other prospects are looking promising.

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    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    Quote Originally Posted by compgeni View Post
    Well, I blew myself out.

    She approached and tried to talk to be about a toy for her nephew. She asked me if I thought she should buy it and if he might like it..etc. She scened I was not near as confident and in control as I normally am and I have not seen her sence. I was taken aback that she was asking my opinion on a product she didn't care about or buy. I should have cut that thread and started my own instead of going 'oh she wants to talk about that.. what's she doing, crap! What do I do now?'

    Other prospects are looking promising.

    Dude your in a tough spot there cause your job tell you to do one thing and trying to be a PUA tells you another. If you feel that yalls state of mind are not congruent then you need to guide her back to a place where yall are both in a "ok" state. If not a close will never work, and will feel foolish and wierd. Your not out of it if you dont want to be, but if you want this chick you have to take control back cause you gave it up to her.

    Tell us about the other prospects.

  6. #6
    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    I def agree with that.

    There was a chick at my school today who when we got talking told me "I just love how you think I don't know anything about cars, I spent XXX time with my dad you know" and she hit me, and I accused her of having suppressed violent tendency and that I should watch my back.

    I have NEVER had that happen before so I know I'm progressing and that the structure WORKS. I just need to have a clear mind to apply it.

    I def agree with what you said about the work/pua balance.

    I find that if I'm in class I'm in class mode and have a hard time BSsing with this chick that is always asking me questions that she can answer herself, and in work I know someone at least finds me somewhat of an enigma but don't think about it. I should go to a club and make frinds.

  7. #7
    compgeni Guest

    Default Re: OK, I've got girls that like me, need to close. Special scenerio including rooma

    Oh snap,

    I saw her today. She came in for "real" business reason. I was bsing with another older male customer who was hanging around to talk to me. We talked about history, politics, engineering and his daughter and what she's going to do with her life. She probably overheard half the conversation as I rung her up while I was bsing with him. Didn't say a word to her at first. I actually didint even notice it was her for a moment. Eventually I said "oh haven't seen you around in a little while" and continued talking with him. Well he leaves and she and I talk. I crack a couple witty one liners that get good laughs (no cocky funny), and she tells me she's quitting smoking (that is a criteria, I don't like smokers, it's gross kissing them, not that I would know). She was going to tell me more about it, she said "I feel....." then she stopped and I changed the topic. Should I have pressed her further to finish the sentence? Blah Blah Blah.

    I didn't get NEAR the "your awesome" response that I got before from her, but I might be able to save this interaction. When I said see you later she said, "ill definitely be in more often"

    I'm thinking hmmmm.. How do I save this and generate attraction now? Do I qualify when I see her again just out of the blue?

    I'm still working on developing my skills with other women, just I should let no opportunity pass me by.


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