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Thread: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

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    Default Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    Yo players. Again, sorry if this is a long read but it's much needed. Here's the story.

    My homie has been dating this girl for a while, and one day I stumbled across her cousin's pic on IG. I left a comment and said she was cute, flat out. I then later found out she was single and liked my "kind" (awesome). We were supposed to meet a few times here and there but it never ended up happening. Then about a month ago, she was finally there with all our friends for once... but now I WASN'T THERE. I was celebrating another close friends bday. Long story short, I rushed over as soon as I could but just missed her. My friends were calling me an idiot, she was waiting for me (not sure if they were trolling cuz they do this a lot), I should've showed up sooner, etc... eff me right? felt like I lost all hope.
    Anyway, just yesterday I went to the Gym. I'm about to run the treadmill and sure enough, I look up and there stood the unicorn herself and a friend. I felt this was it. No matter what, this time I would commit myself to go over and talk to her. However, one thing lead to the next and we only ended up glancing at each other from a distance. I was watching her, and she was def watching me too. I was about to say something when I got near, but she looked away and I completely bitched out cuz I didn't wanna embarrass the both of us in front of her friend (sneaky excuses) and they both left that moment. Another regret which I was mad at myself for.

    So at this point, I've had about enough. I'm done waiting and doing nothing. I'm making the decision to find her on FB tomorrow, nuff said. I'm told she has been wanting to meet me so fuck it. Talk to her now or forever hold my peace. I just need advice on how I should approach her now. I'm a fairly ballsy dude so I'm not totally afraid to speak, but I'm still an introvert at the same time to the point where I fear saying the wrong thing and screwing up what could be nice. Her cousin told me some good things about her, so I'm curious to find out more. So how should I open her on FB and keep things fun and interesting? lemme know what you guys think.

    Thanks boys!

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    Default Re: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    I would suggest the direct approach in person, forget about Facebook.

    Most guys do facebook if they don't know how to talk to a girl in person, and girls know it also.

    You meet her in person and didn't say anything, now no matter what you say on FB it will be weak.

    Meet her in person. Go direct. Tease use C/F negs or whatever. Get the number etc.

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    Default Re: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    Well now that's the thing. For as long as this has been going on, I've only actually saw her once. We never actually met. If I could have it my way, I'd rather talk to her in person (which is what I should have done anyway). It's why I waited. Unfortunately, approaching in person is hardly an option.

    Just to be clear, I only wanna set something up on FB. I'd still rather get in person.

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    Default Re: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    Quote Originally Posted by 2Rude View Post
    Well now that's the thing. For as long as this has been going on, I've only actually saw her once. We never actually met. If I could have it my way, I'd rather talk to her in person (which is what I should have done anyway). It's why I waited. Unfortunately, approaching in person is hardly an option.

    Just to be clear, I only wanna set something up on FB. I'd still rather get in person.

    If you must do FB, use the same strategy as you would for online dating game. There are several posts on this site for that. But do not add on her on facebook, before she adds you.

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    Default Re: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    Sounds fair. I've never been a huge fan of texting/messaging myself. Just my chances of running into her again are so slim it's retarded lol. But I was thinking since there's already Tension, it could be an advantage if my execution is on point.

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    Default Re: Gonna finally talk to this girl on FB . Need advice!

    Update.

    So yeah, I said fuck it. As much as I would rather see her in person, I decided to take a risk and slid in them DM's. I opened her by mentioning that I saw her at the Gym. At first the convo was a bit rocky because she didn't know who I was (thought I was some creep. I shouldn't have assumed that she'd remember me; either that or she's playing dumb but that's irrelevant). After I told her who I was, she dropped her guard and we've been talking since.

    I still haven't got to meet her in person yet, but there's definitely a great vibe (Flirting, teasing, compliments, sharing pics, etc) and we share a lot of commonalities. So all is well so far and she's getting more comfortable.

    Thanks for the advice, Wiki!


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