Yo players. Again, sorry if this is a long read but it's much needed. Here's the story.
My homie has been dating this girl for a while, and one day I stumbled across her cousin's pic on IG. I left a comment and said she was cute, flat out. I then later found out she was single and liked my "kind" (awesome). We were supposed to meet a few times here and there but it never ended up happening. Then about a month ago, she was finally there with all our friends for once... but now I WASN'T THERE. I was celebrating another close friends bday. Long story short, I rushed over as soon as I could but just missed her. My friends were calling me an idiot, she was waiting for me (not sure if they were trolling cuz they do this a lot), I should've showed up sooner, etc... eff me right? felt like I lost all hope.
Anyway, just yesterday I went to the Gym. I'm about to run the treadmill and sure enough, I look up and there stood the unicorn herself and a friend. I felt this was it. No matter what, this time I would commit myself to go over and talk to her. However, one thing lead to the next and we only ended up glancing at each other from a distance. I was watching her, and she was def watching me too. I was about to say something when I got near, but she looked away and I completely bitched out cuz I didn't wanna embarrass the both of us in front of her friend (sneaky excuses) and they both left that moment. Another regret which I was mad at myself for.
So at this point, I've had about enough. I'm done waiting and doing nothing. I'm making the decision to find her on FB tomorrow, nuff said. I'm told she has been wanting to meet me so fuck it. Talk to her now or forever hold my peace. I just need advice on how I should approach her now. I'm a fairly ballsy dude so I'm not totally afraid to speak, but I'm still an introvert at the same time to the point where I fear saying the wrong thing and screwing up what could be nice. Her cousin told me some good things about her, so I'm curious to find out more. So how should I open her on FB and keep things fun and interesting? lemme know what you guys think.