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    Default Openers for approaching on a cruise ship?

    Anyone have any openers they use on a cruise ship? Im taking a 3 day cruise out of Miami. Anyone gamed on a cruise?

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    Default Re: Openers for approaching on a cruise ship?

    I have an opener for you. "Hi". That's all you need. Just say Hi and go from there. You don't need any fancy opener. Either say Hi and talk to her or comment on something going on around you. The best thing about vacation destinations is that women are looking for some D without strings attached. You don't need a magical opener, you just need to talk to them.

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    Default Re: Openers for approaching on a cruise ship?

    I have bad Approach Anxiety sometimes and my mind goes blank.

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    Default Re: Openers for approaching on a cruise ship?

    Quote Originally Posted by fila View Post
    I have bad Approach Anxiety sometimes and my mind goes blank.
    That's a common problem. It's actually better for your mind to go blank then try and "plan" out a conversation. That way your replies will be based on what she says. That's how a natural conversation works. If you're good at talking to men then you know how to hold a conversation.

    One trick to get you talkative is to talk to random strangers that you're not interested in first. Men, older women, or women you're not interested in. Just have random chit-chat with these people. Once you get the juices flowing it's much easier to talk to a random woman who you ARE interested in.

    All openers do is give guys more confidence to approach because they give them something to say. Once the openers over you still have to have a conversation. My best opener is "hi" with a genuine smile. You can also comment on something going on around you. These are the most natural ways to talk to someone. The best is when you find a woman doing something silly, and you'd be surprised at how often this happens, and you ask her "what are you doing?" with an amused look on your face.


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