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Thread: Alpha male dominance problem.

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    Default Alpha male dominance problem.

    Dear guys,

    I oepned a set with a hot girl in it and a guy, the guy was very scared of me or some shit and as soon as I started to dhv...........

    {I perform magic and say that i am the chairman of the magic community, which i am}

    The guy closed off his body language and he was like :"thank you", thank you, and wanted mne to leave but the girl wanted to listen to the shit I was sayhing.




    I was floored. I had no idea what to do.


    any help

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    Default Re: Alpha male dominance problem.

    Of the top of my head I would have said " Thanks dude, but save your applause for later " and do the trick.

    After u have done the trick just whisper to the girl " next time i make him disappear first" wink, smiley face and walk away only to re-engage later on.

    If the guy keeps badgering you it might be that hes the BF. If hes not he will come off looking like a douche if he keeps pushing u away. Important thing is do not fall into his frame. Keep it light !

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    Default Re: Alpha male dominance problem.

    Quote Originally Posted by rom9 View Post
    If the guy keeps badgering you it might be that hes the BF. If hes not he will come off looking like a douche if he keeps pushing u away. Important thing is do not fall into his frame. Keep it light !
    Yep. If you would have stayed and he kept doing what he was doing he would have looked like a tool.

    You should have said "You're welcome (big smile)" and continued or "You're welcome (big smile) but that's not the trick. If you liked that you're REALLY going to like this." Then continue.

    All you need to do is be friendly and if the guy keeps it up, he digs his own grave. I've been in similar situations before and if the girls want to talk to me I keep talking to them. Eventually if the guy is aggressive enough (and wants to fight) it gets to the point where I stop being friendly and say "Listen, everyone's here to have a good time. (very strong eye contact) I'm not fighting you." Then you walk away.

    At this point many people have seen the confrontation, you look like a cool laid back dude and he looks like a tool. If he's friends with the woman sometimes they will come over to you later and apologize for HIS behavior. I've pulled SO many women in this situation. All you have to do is stand up for yourself, not back down, but be the bigger man and not fight.

    Also, in the future I would avoid telling women you are the chairman for a magician group. Go ahead and do magic tricks if that's your thing, but bringing up that you're the chairman sounds like you're trying to impress them. Leave that alone right off the bat and only bring it up later if they start asking allot of questions about you as a magician.

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    Default Re: Alpha male dominance problem.

    I love you guys thanks for that NOW i am gonna dominate guys

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    Default Re: Alpha male dominance problem.

    Quote Originally Posted by samtheillusionist View Post
    I love you guys thanks for that NOW i am gonna dominate guys
    Dude, do not go in with a frame of mind "i am gonna dominate you guys" !! U do not NEED to dominate, you are cool on your own ! Go in with that Mindset !


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