Met a girl at a dancing lesson (HB 8.5 maybe).
Never seen her before, but she gave me clear stares and smiles even before I talked to her. Was surely into me !
So when she came dance with me, I made her laugh and made the attraction stronger. Then on the second dance I casually asked her if she was Japanese (she is clearly Caucasian BUT she has a strange whacky sense of fashion, crazy colored hair and so on like many Japaneses girls do), and it was a cheeky comment. She was kinda shocked and laughed but at the same time seemed to take it too personally and not as a joke as I intended. She got cold after that not responding much.
I asked her if she was thinking why I called her Japanese. I said cause "your hair color and your sense of fashion is like that, whacky just like the Japanese". She smiled but then I felt like the attraction was not so strong.
She is thinking probably that I am a dickhead or I was rude to her when this was not the case at all.
I am sure no guy has ever been straight forward to her like that.
What do u guys think I should do next time I meet her ?
I mean what to say to get back the attraction and escalate.