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    Question I said I love you.

    I said I love you to the girl i met yesterday and we are in comfort phase right now. I said this to demostrate vulnerability routine that mystery uses:


    "I can't stop thinkin about you. I love you.
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    Is it ok

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    Default Re: I said I love you.

    It depends on how you put it. If you said it with a cocky attitude it should be okay. Otherwise it probably will freak her out since you just met a day ago.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: I said I love you.

    I never understood guys who say stuff like this to a girl they've only known for a very brief period ...... This is uber needy, very creepy, and bigtime AFC ....... most girls would be freaked out by this and who can blame them .... if you said it as a joke in a cocky funny way then good stuff, but I dont think thats what happened here
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    Default Re: I said I love you.

    CONTEXT....
    You CAN get away with saying stuff like that if you do it in a fun, cheeky way.

    I was talking to a girl about food... and when she mentioned she likes olives, I said "Marry me!" (It was totally taken in context as me being silly... because MOST people (especially girls) don't like olives. So since she was such a rare find in that aspect, I made a joke & she took it correctly.

    She knew I wasn't being serious...

    The same goes for "I love you" when it's in the same silly context. It can work...
    But it has to be right after she says or does something kind of impressive....

    Like she mentions how she can change her own oil on her car... or she has a secret recipe for your favorite dish.... etc. Then you say, "OMG! I love you!!" And do it so that it's WAAAAAAY over the top & humorous.

    Other than that... it's gonna screw you over & you'll look needy/creepy.


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    Default Re: I said I love you.

    I was once with a girl who told me that she makes a killer lasagne and I was like "You have to be the mother of my 2.5 children" and she busted out laughing because it was so over the top that it was funny, but if I said that to a girl in a straight up conversation that I only knew for a week or so it would be really scary .... it's all about context
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    Default Re: I said I love you.

    I think i am fucked up with this girl she blocked her number shit NEXT SET


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