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Thread: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

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    Default Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    Hi Guys

    This is a new thing I have come across lately. A couple of girls (who are completely smitten by me but still playing hard to get as they cant seem to stay away from me) asking me I am such a handsome and cool guy. How I am still single ?

    Of course I am single cause I like to keep it casual. But How do I handle this kind of question as it feels loaded (indicating that the girl likes me but us unsure if she wants to go ahead physically)

    I am not the tall ripped good looking hunk girls like to fuck without a thought but I can still pull a lot with my personality and humor. But increasing I see this hapeinng that girls rather would like to be be serious with me and not a fling.

    Any suggestions ?

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    Be unapologetically honest with them.

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    How I am still single ?
    my favorite answer for this:

    confidently smile and look boldly into her eyes, and casually say: "I'm vaginally challenged" (in a teasingly sarcastic tone)

    I am not the tall ripped good looking hunk girls like to fuck without a thought but I can still pull a lot with my personality and humor. But increasing I see this hapeinng that girls rather would like to be be serious with me and not a fling.
    you're not the only one who deals with this way too often. sometimes I have a girl who's really into me, but then she won't sleep with me because she wants something more "long term". this gets very annoying. the way to avoid it is to be very clear about your intentions from the start. as short stuff recommended, be brutally honest with them.

    I am not the tall ripped good looking hunk girls like to fuck without a thought
    sure, being a Neanderthal helps when it comes to getting women for one night stands, but I also know plenty of women who are actually intimidated by these types of men. (and I would also argue that intelligence and Social Status will win over physical stature any day) you don't have to be ripped to get women, you just don't want to be a fat slob with no job.


    bottom line, if your not physical, find other advantages like: intellect, social status, adventurousness, talent, humor, and skill.

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    as long you make convo.. and make them laugh your good brah..
    you cant be nice all the time.. u have to flirt and be a lil perv (Kino) with them

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    some good feedback here guys. Thanks !

    I am (almost all the time) very clear about my intentions. I come across very sexual and Kino a lot.
    I am sure you also come across this as well that despite your intentions being clear some girls still expect something more before you score.

    I have a weakness for smart girls and they almost always want something more than causal !

    Funny thing is I have seen girls put up walls to great extent for men they actually like and not give in to them but then the same girls just sleep with random idiots !
    Part of the game I guess !

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    some girls still expect something more before you score.
    nice rhyme lol


    I'm also used to dealing with this because there are plenty of religious women in my area... (the trick to dealing with these kinds of women is to just be patient with them and build extra comfort, just don't let them sucker you into committing to them without any sexual activity)


    I have a weakness for smart girls and they almost always want something more than causal !
    its interesting you mention that. I have also noticed that smarter girls usually way overthink about a guy before they'll sleep with him. I guess the dumber girls just have shorter thought process...

    Funny thing is I have seen girls put up walls to great extent for men they actually like and not give in to them but then the same girls just sleep with random idiots !
    ah, those guys are the ones who fell into the "perfect man" trap. you see, sometimes a girl will see you as the "perfect guy" and thus constantly find ways to test this. of course eventually you fail to keep up with the image of you that she has created in her mind and so she decides your not who she thought you were... the way to avoid this is to use disqualifiers. (as in, don't let her praise you too much)

    example:
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    her: your abs are soo nice
    me: yeah, but tomorrow I'm going to eat a whole box of pizza and they'll be gone.

    2.
    her: I like your beard its so soft
    me: enjoy it tonight, cause I'm planning on shaving

    3.
    her: you're such a gentleman!
    me: don't get too used to it, I can be a real asshole some days.

    4.
    her: you're such a great cook
    me: when I get lucky. the other day I burnt mac n cheese...

    5.
    her: you're so smart!
    me: sometimes I don't feel so smart, the other day I locked my keys in my car...

    basically the idea is to show her that you're human too. this keeps the woman from having unrealistic expectations of you.

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    Default Re: Girls asking me I am such a great guy and why i am still single

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    example:
    1.
    her: your abs are soo nice
    me: yeah, but tomorrow I'm going to eat a whole box of pizza and they'll be gone.

    2.
    her: I like your beard its so soft
    me: enjoy it tonight, cause I'm planning on shaving

    3.
    her: you're such a gentleman!
    me: don't get too used to it, I can be a real asshole some days.

    4.
    her: you're such a great cook
    me: when I get lucky. the other day I burnt mac n cheese...

    5.
    her: you're so smart!
    me: sometimes I don't feel so smart, the other day I locked my keys in my car...

    basically the idea is to show her that you're human too. this keeps the woman from having unrealistic expectations of you.
    Very nicely put dude. I would add that by saying things like in your examples, you are also being funny at the same time, which will get you laughs and even more comfort. I use those types of lines all of the time whether I'm trying to make it a disqualifier or not, because it also makes you appear to be comfortable with who you are and not afraid to express it = confidence. To share a bit with you guys something that's pretty personal, I literally just had this situation tonight where I went out with a girl from work for the third time, and on the ride home we went from telling each other very embarrassing stories to her asking me about what/how much stuff I do with girls (not much because it means too much to me to just sleep around) and I just owned the answer and explained my reasoning. This made her open up about some insecurities to me and long story short, we are probably having drinks at her apartment this weekend before she moves back to PA and I leave for a trip. She considers me to be a "good guy" and I am confident about it and don't let myself get pushed around because of it, and that's who I CHOOSE to be. Women respect that, and if you are open and straight-forward with them, you will get a return on your investment. Trust me. I may not get as many women as I'd like, but you can be darn sure I could if I chose to.

    Sorry to go off on a tangent there. I'm not even sure if that helps your question at all. I felt like it had to be said. I'm in your boat dude. Just be honest with them.

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