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Thread: New Help with beach approaches

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    Default New Help with beach approaches

    I live in the south jersey area or what some people would like to call it the shore. Whenever I'm on the beach I see a hot girl I walk up without thinking what I'm gonna say. I've been studying for a while now so I can bs somewhat easily on the spot but the opener that I think of never has anything to do with the beach, swimsuit, and so on. The line I normally say is something on the lines of this

    Me- hey what's it like being the most beautiful girl on this beach I mean your friend here ( if the girl is with her friend which girls normally are ) is attractive but nothing like you ... I mean I've been sitting there for 15 mins seeing beauty walk by in different forms without thinking about it but you I couldn't keep my eyes off of. So tell me why do you stand out so much.

    Idk if I'm over thinking this because I do that a lot but I just thought maybe talking about the environment around us or the situation would come off more natural as well as build attraction then something a guy memorized.

    any help would be appreciated

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    cut the compliments, don't be an AFC, also don't talk negatively about her friend because her attraction for you will drop instantly, be more under the radar with your target instead of shooting compliments at her like from an AK-47, it is good that you are chalenging her though

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    Thank you so much but I was wondering would it be possible for you to give me good openers for something like this or just edited the one I have above ... Thank you so much for reply to my post

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    Cool Re: New Help with beach approaches

    no problem man, glad to help. I am not a fan of lines which you use over and over again, I enjoy the Mindset and improvizing, so when I give out advice to people.. let's just put it this way, I like to give out the blueprints on how to make guns, not the guns themselves. Another thing I forgot to mention was that you're talking way too much for an opener, you want her to be intrigued not bored or freaked out. You're obviously nervous about this, and it's even more clear after reading your opener. I don't know what your mindset is but I just love cocky/funny with a very small hint of insecurity, and not just because it's the best mindset in my opinion, but because that's just my personality. What I realized is that not all openers tend to work for everyone, it's about wether or not YOU think the opener is good and with what energy you bring it to the table so definetely keep that in mind. So.. I guess I should tell you how I would do it in your shoes but just by editing your current opener a bit..
    "hey, you're obviously the most beautiful girl in the beach, but besides the pretty face, what makes you so special?"
    this one definetely requires balls to do and ofcourse a playful attitude otherwise you just seem like an ass, and out of all of these openers, this is my favorite.

    "*walking up to a girl* -wait.. *takes off sunglasses* just wanted to make sure if you're as beautiful in sunlight" this is just a very simple and playful one which will surely leave her amused and intrigued, doesn't have to be cocky, should be told normaly til u take off the glasses and reveal what she was waiting for.

    "Hey, you're absolutely gorgeus, and this may sound weird but.. I have to find out if you're as beautuful on the inside, name's [insert name here] and you are?"
    this one is definetely not my style because it shows too much insecurity for my taste and leaves you as if you're -sold- because you're showing neediness. But the reason I even recomend this one because you seem to be going for a very direct approach and the fact that you introduce yourself before she even replies to your neediness kinda rubs off a bit of that neediness because it shows confidence (cause by stating your name you assume that she's hooked) yet again, not my style because it can be too overwelming for some girls (the overt interest)
    "hey gorgeus, wanna go for a swim?" this is obviously cheesy and she probably heard that one before but it shows confidence and should be done in a playful manner, I actually like this 1 a lot BECAUSE of it's cheesiness.. she will probably try to sh*t test you and I love it when girls sh*t test me because with every passed test her attraction for you rises, not recomended though if you aren't very socially aware of sh*t tests, even if you reek of confidence and playfulness

    so yeah, hope this is atleast a bit helpful, let me know what you want the message for the girl to be and if u want it to be straight forward or not and ofcourse what mindset you have when it comes to getting girls, try to say it in your own words not terms in particular

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    Omg so much solid information this is actually amazing man omg I don't even know how to thank you I'm just lost in words ... Do you mind if I message you sometime for advice and knowledge on this because you seem to know a lot and even tho I read a lot of books on this having someone actually answer and help out directly with the problem who be invaluable. Again thank you for replying

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    How is telling her that she is beautiful and gorgeous, something that hundreds of other guys do, going to leave her amused and intrigued ?!?!!!!?!?! You should just playfully kick sand at her and tell her the beach isn't big enough for both of you then challenge her to a thumb wrestling match ..... that's intriguing and amusing and I bet no other guys have ever done that
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    I'm very new to the community but I feel like that comes off as mean and aggressive so could you explain this thinking a little more to me so I understand ... If I agree with what you say I'll totally try it and make a field report with everything that worked for me

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    drgnsfire12 it's because you're chalenging her to prove her self to you by asking what's beneath that beauty, yes it's more effective to do it indirectly but he asked me to tweak his DIRECT approach and it can be just as powerful to leave her intrigued without beating around the bush (doing it indirectly) if done correctly. so don't hate on others opinions just cause they differ from yours, it's like I said what ever works for someone else, doesn't necesarilly work you.

    and yeah, I'd be glad to help you, pm me anytime you want and I'll try to respond as soon as I log in, as long as you value my help and try some of my ideas, that's all I ask in return

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    what ever works for someone else, doesn't necesarilly work you.
    Right on the money. There's hundreds of different ways to get women. What works for one guy might not work for another.

    Indirect doesn't jive with my personality. The most indirect method I've seen is the Mystery Method. It makes sense, because if you've read the game, Mystery is a very insecure individual. Mystery can't handle rejection so he made a way to get women and try to avoid rejection as much as possible. The sad thing about it is he got rejected ALLOT, just not right off the bat, but weeks later.

    The reason why allot of guys think direct doesn't work is because most of them had feelings for a girl for a LONG time and never made a move. Eventually they told the girl what they thought and they got the "lets just be friends" speech. It wasn't the directness that cost them the girl, it was the fact that they waited too long to make a move.

    Beautiful women hear they are beautiful ALL the time at BARS when guys are hammered. They also hear it from guys on facebook. These are two places you should never say these things because it takes no balls. BUT have you ever heard a guy tell a woman that during the day at the grocery store? I haven't. Hell, I haven't seen a guy approach a woman anywhere except to make some excuse about her dog or to ask the time.

    The point I'm getting to is this; Do whatever works for you. It doesn't matter what you say, it's how you say it. You can give women compliments if you want, and they REALLY enjoy it if you are a confident guy. I love it when guys say don't compliment beautiful women. I've gotten the most attractive women of my life doing just that, and I swept them off their feet (they told me this).

    Direct will give you more rejection at first, but the women you do get you'll get much faster. Everything will speed up because they know you're interested. You'll also get way less flakes and have to spend absolutely no time playing "phone game" to get them to meet up with you. If that's the route you want to take go for it, but until your confidence gets high enough, it's a rough bumpy road.

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    Default Re: New Help with beach approaches

    I would totally avoid telling a girl she is beautiful, attractive, gorgeous ....... if you are going direct tell her she seems adventurous, sassy, or goofy but stay away from how she looks attractive girls hear that all the time


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