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    redstar1324 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor Achievements:
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    Default How do I turn these approaches into something more?

    These are some general approaches I did the other day just for practice....

    Girl working at the cell phone store.... I asked her what is the difference between her plans and the one that I'm using. We talked about data usage, etc. Point is not "what" we were talking about, but it's really the eye contact, body language, involved. But how can I turn a conversation about cell phones into something more.

    Another one at a hair salon. I told her that I tried to dye my hair at home and left the color in for too long and it came out black instead of brown. Can I change it just by coloring it again. She said I had to bleach it. Again, the point is not the words said, but the body language, etc.

    How can I turn "functional" interactions like this into something more?

    I was talking with confidence and dressed nice so maybe she found me attractive.

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    Default Re: How do I turn these approaches into something more?

    you're missing a ton of ques if you haven't managed to find ANYTHING to change the conversation to or make a C&F comment.. Talking about the phone store girl would have said something like
    "alright awesome, what do you think would be the perfect cellphone for me to call you and ask you on a date?"
    "Which one of these phones do I have to buy to get your number?"

    When the hair salon girl said you had to bleach your hair you should have responded in a sexy way with something like "I'm going to need help, you seem like a pro at this"

    as for changing the conversation, think of any sentence the girls has told you, even when she was talking about her weekend "oh me and my friend Monica went to the theatre, the movie was a bit boring and we were hungry so we decided to get some pizza" a SINGLE sentence and look how many dirrections you can go to

    1. "friend Monica" Asking about Monica
    2. :went to the theatre"Asking about the movie
    3. Telling about your weekend
    4. "the movie was a bit boring" Telling a story about a boring movie you've watched
    5. "Hungry" making a playful comment that the pizza isn't going to get her wasted 2 hours of boredom
    6. Telling her what you like to do after a long time of boredom

    Practise making widdy comments from almost nothing, LISTEN to what the girl is telling you, and I can assure you that you won't have to struggle with not knowing how to lead the conversation to something different ever again.

    Just a tip by the way, don't ask girls when they are working anything work related, unless you intend to changing the conversation pretty quick or else you'll get boring and will have a stamp as just a "customer"

    Cheers

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    Default Re: How do I turn these approaches into something more?

    I always struggle keeping a conversation going because I am naturally introverted. Other people talk more in a day than I do in a year.


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