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    Question Approaching Cute Girl at the Gym

    Hi everyone,

    Not sure if this has already been mentioned. I searched the forums but haven't been able to find anything. Perhaps I'm searching incorrectly. (Sorry for repeat!)

    Here's the background story: I exercise regularly at my local gym, and I've been noticing a girl once or twice a week while I'm there. She's cute and works out alone. When it comes to the gym, I'm the type who likes to get in and get out, not wasting any time. I get The Vibe she's not there to chit chat either. Although the couple minor exchanges we've had, (asking how long I would be using a certain machine) she seemed very friendly. What are some openers/advice you guys have to approach a girl in this situation... somewhere you guys go fairly regularly.

    Cliffs:
    Cute girl at the gym
    How do I approach?
    One mental road block is because it's at a place we both frequent

    Thanks in advance all!

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    Default Re: Approaching Cute Girl at the Gym

    Odd, I've posted before and joined way before May of this year. Anyone else have their registration dates/post # reset?

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    Default Re: Approaching Cute Girl at the Gym

    It's great she frequents the same place as you, especially if you still aren't comfortable approaching. Next time you have an exchange, stretch out the conversation a little. The more time you spend around someone, the more comfortable you get.

    DO NOT make her the focal point of your gym experience, remember you are there to do something, but she is now a friend to talk to you. After a few brief exchanges, you can suggest something away from the gym.

    I'd say this is easier than having one swing at a girl. As long as you aren't overly needed (i.e. Making her your focal point) you should do great.

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