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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    This is the "state of my game," as we speak.... I go out dressed like this or something close to it...

    https://www.dropbox.com/s/98pk5k88vj...asses.jpg?dl=0

    That is better dress than nearly anyone else out there and those are Versace sunglasses that retail for $350.

    I love peacocking and I go to places packed with people so it is necessary, in my opinion. I go to places like this...

    https://www.dropbox.com/s/19efpm7p0k...treet.jpg?dl=0

    There are hundreds of hot girls everywhere and I know it's not about "lines" (or maybe it is, I just need to find the right ones). Theoretically, if I could find a line or a few that worked, I could use them on everybody.

    I have read ALL the books, and still don't know what to say. Lol. I am perhaps just overthinking it. Maybe, "hi, how are you?". I go out and have girls standing right next to me and still don't know what to say. Part of me think they don't deserve me, but that's not going to get me very far.

    I have been with about 35 girls in my life, so sex is nothing new. I love eating pussy. I should have no problem. I'm not really looking to get tied down to one person, but I also don't want to limit myself to less-than-average "down to fuck" girls.

    One thing that I've noticed is that in the few instances I actually have conversations with girls that last more than a few seconds, I seem to have a lot of resentment and anger. Like, if they say one thing, it makes me really mad. I don't want to get into my whole life story, but I've been through too much to take any disrespect from anyone.

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    I feel the same way about not knowing what to say to women. I've read so much material and I understand the principles of attracting women. What you need to do is just practice more at talking to women. That's what it comes down to - practice. I hate having to use pick up lines. Maybe it's okay when you're just starting out, but, ultimately, I want to embody the qualities of an alpha male that women are attracted to. If I embody these qualities, I won't need pick-up lines. I'll know how to act and what to say.

    If girls are disrespecting you when you talk to them, then it's something your doing that's causing it. Accept responsibility and see what you need to change to do better from now on. You don't want to feel a negative emotion like anger when you're first talking to a girl. You'll be in a bad emotional state and so you'll screw things up. No one's going to be attracted to someone who is angry at them for no good reason., especially if you just met them.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    True. And like yesterday I spent 20 minutes struggling conversation just to find out she's a lesbian. Lol.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    I was just discussing this with a friend at an OSU pregame today before the game! I feel like I have decent 1-on-1 game, but start-up and closing is no bueno with me for some reason. I have trouble working up just busting into a group of girls and start talking without dying out super early on. I'm thinking if I can manage to pull my cocky side out with them then I should be ok, but I seem to psych myself out pretty badly just beforehand and it just utterly ruins my game.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    I can make a cheesy opener no problem, I just have trouble extending the conversation past 5 seconds

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Be interesting. I'm about to be very wealthy. I do things on a daily basis that you will never do in your whole life. Do you have a product on the shelves at CVS? I do. Do you represent yourself in court on tenant evictions? I do.

    There is so much wrong with what you just said, I don't even know where to start. Desperate for sex? I have turned down the last handful of opportunities at least.
    Are you actually trying to gloat on a PUA forum?

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    What's wrong with that?

    I actually don't even remember making this thread.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    If all you want is sex then go for the girls that are looking for sex. Here is a trick. Go to the club at closing time and look for the girls that are still alone. Go to them put your arm around them and whisper in her ear you want her. If she stays there and giggle go for a kiss and tell her you live very close by and leave with her.

    It is all about learning the girls that are up for a One Night Stand.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    I don't think I have the balls to do that. Maybe I will in a few weeks, though.

    My place sucks, though. I live in a mobile home and this is always in the back of my mind.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    When she is horny SHE DOESN'T GIVE A FUCK if you took her to the bathroom. You give a lot of excuses .

    If you don't have the balls to do it then stop looking for quick sex.
    GO get a hooker.

    You ask so many questions yet you don't listen or apply the answer. It is like you ask wanting to hear what you like and the truth scares you.

    Grow a pair,

    Pimpin'Scout


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