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    Default How do I build attraction in conversation?

    On the rare occasion that I actually have an extended conversation with a girl... It often boils down to "fact finding," like what do you do for school, etc.

    I often am quiet just due to my personality and I don't even realize I come across as quiet until the girl asks me, "are you always this quiet?"

    How do I enhance the conversation so she will be more entertained and more likely to want to have another one?

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Go out and and buy a writing prompt handbook and fill it out with as much information as you can. Maybe do two prompts a day. They're kinda like short answer or essay questions from school. If you keep it up for a month you'll have 60 new topics to both ask her about and 60 new topics to have an opinion on.

    If if your problem is t lack of things to talk about, wear a watch and start setting timers for your conversations look at the timer every time you have to pause for an awkward amount of time. If it's not been 10 minutes throw in another prompt from the book you bought to ask her opinion about something. Generally women like to talk aboutthemselves and opinions of things more than men anyway. The booklet costs $7 for 300 writing prompts.

    (Hint: it also doubles as a pretty fun booklet to play drinking games with buddy's.)

    hope this helps
    Levi Gene

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Levi - I like that idea, when I first started in the game I would keep a cheat sheet of stories, openers, negs and other lines in my phone ..... gave me lots of confidence knowing they were there ...... now here I am six years later and things just Roll Off the top of my head and I can talk endlessly


    Redstar - one thing I do is keep my eyes and ears open for good stories, stand up comics are very good for this ...... it's very easy to turn them around and make them about you ....the more crazy the better, I always like to keep girls guessing whether I'm telling the truth or just being funny
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    I would generally just talk about myself and my business and I really don't care what think about anything.

    If the conversation doesn't lead to sex very quickly, it is pretty boring.

    Here's a conversation I had in bar the other week:

    Me: Can I bum a cigarette?
    Her: Will you buy me a shot?
    Me: No.

    I'm not going to sit there and pretend I care about what she's talking about or what she thinks. I have a business to run. I am trying to be a billionaire. I don't have time to talk about stupid shit. And, yes, the majority of what girls talk about is stupid shit and if you don't agree, then you are stupid. Like today at a bar, the girls are just singing along to the music. It's just ridiculously stupid to listen to them talk most of the time.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Red star- I'll be honest dude. I don't know if there's any help for apathy like that until you reassess some priorities. All women like a man with drive and a good work ethic but it's hard to fake being interested in them or to be very interesting to them with an attitude like that. The reason I got in this game was because I love women, like a religion, they make my life incredibly interesting with or without generalizing that what all women say is stupid.

    If I personally felt that way, and I have before usually after a breakup with one I cared for, I would take some time away from the game to remap my identity, goals, and problem solving skills.

    Or just get an escort and pay to bypass all of the small talk and get straight to sex if that's always the end goal.
    Good luck with your business

    levi gene

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    What do you like about them?

    And this question is not just for him... it is for everyone on this forum. What do you like about girls/women? I would start a new thread, but I've already made a couple today and I don't want to be considered a troll since I just joined.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Being in my mid twenties and single I actually find myself gravitating towards women for close friendships. 1. As you become more comfortable speaking about yourself and to other peoe you find women hold a conversation better, and are typically much more open. Getting together with the boys is great to do some activities, drink, and joke around. But you can go out with a female friend and talk about anything, they're usually much more receptive. 2. When you surround yourself with women, you find yourself meeting and attracting more women.

    "Me: Can I bum a cigarette?
    Her: Will you buy me a shot?
    Me: No"

    I used to do this and think I was being assertive and that was attractive, nope. You don't have to buy her a shot but now she is leaving you an opportunity to flirt.
    You: of course... If you buy me a jack and coke 😄

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Yes, but those witty responses only hold value for one second, then true value or lack thereof comes out, along with character

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    Read book 'mode one' it's short (160 pages) but very analytically dissects how men and women interact. It's kinda a refresher course for being completely honest with yourself and the world around you.

    I I don't know how to respond to that question. I love the way they smell, how soft their skin is, the annoying way they care so much for so little but are too personally involved to see all of the things they're missing going by. I love the hair in my face when I wake up and of course the marks I leave on them when I've had my way with them. I like finding stupid bobby pins around the house and that they think if they leave a bra at your house that means they can show up whenever to pick it up. I like when they cling onto you every time your out and she's worried about something. I like when they go on and on about something stupid and know damn well I'm not listening. And if she's respectful and can cook I might even like her for a few weeks.

    You can't change people's behavior. The idea is that I can only change my own behavior and frame of mind. Tell me how often you can change other people's mind about ANYTHING without sacrificing either money, time, and effort. Be upfront with what you want and expect from them and pump it full of sexual energy and even if they reject you, their friends and sisters won't.

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    Default Re: How do I build attraction in conversation?

    All I want is sex. I don't even really want conversations. I don't even want to tell them what I do for a living.


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