so over the past year i've talked to alot of women and what i've noticed is that
if you tell them they're beautiful, that exact word "beautiful" or hot, cute, smokin', it really brings the conversation to a stop!
does this mean they're not into you when this happens? no not at all!
.. i mean it could but we won't get into that right now.
the reason you're game is torn to the ground with the women you compiment in such a way is because it:
- is something they hear constantly, especially if they are incredibly good lookin'
-they sometimes interperet it in a way that they think you have low self esteem.. ok lemme explain! it's ok to be in awe when a beautiful girl talks to you , but you need to act like her beauty does not phase you. ever notice the manager at say hooters, or the bouncer at a Strip Club is really comfortable around all the gorgeous women? that's what you need to convey.
ok so now what you clicked on this bulletin for!
let them know you like their style, and if you have to let them know they're attractive just say "you're a real headturner".
that's something i came up with and used a couple times, and the response is still a bit shaky but it isn't anywhere near as awkward. probably because it's something they've never heard before.
just let them know you think they're unique..
sometimes i tell a girl she's bubbly and it's fun to be around her, but only if she is actaully bubbly.
the basis of this bulletin is do not use the looks compliments.
maybe i'm wrong, but i just wanted to share my thoughts with this community.