So the reason I got the system was just so I could get my ex-girlfirend back. She is definitely a NJR - I would greatly appreciate any help that people could give me on winning her back. We still talk almost daily and there is still strong sexual Tension. I am naturally pretty good with women and have been playing it more aloof with here recently and it seems to be working. But without a real strategy I am worried that I will mess it up for good. We dated for 15 months, she is absolutely the woman I see myself with, and she broke up with me because she said she needed more time to focus on school, and she felt guilty about not being able to call me some nights when shes doin hw, or out with friends. It was long distance the entire time we were together ( about 100 miles so not terrible, but eliminating the possibility of seeing each other on weekdays) but it didnt cause any MAJOR problems just minor annoyances... that is until the break up. Any advice on getting her back, and getting her to want the long term realtionship. She still says she sees us together eventually, but its just to difficult right now with school. What should I do, I'll be forever indebted.
Just bought it and ent thru it....wow. Pretty awesome!
Guys, how many pages is the e-book?
Vin Dicarlo pandoras box system). At least I think she is... She's definitely an iNvestor-- short string of very long term boyfriends, not much dating in between, about equal in number of guy/girl friends, lots investing characteristics like buying me stuff and separation pain. Not so sure about the J and R, she definitely was totally fine with sex when we first met, and is pretty kinky, making me think she's a Justifier, but no tattoos and a very small number of prior partners, and all the risky stuff she talks about she never does, and ultimately the sex seems pretty special to her, making her seem kinda Denier. As for the Realist, well I initially thought she was a an Idealist because of her totally impractical artistic career that she was completely dedicated to, and long string of unambitious side jobs. However, over the last couple years I've discovered a lot of of Realist tendencies, such as she's kinda the responsible caretaker in her family, and the worthless father figure growing up. Now she wants to give up her artistic career to do something dangerous but that would pay much better.
What do you guys think? Is she NJR? if not, what is she?
And lastly, does this change my game plan for getting her back? I have been following the NoContact rules for getting the ex back, and I've followed them pretty well. The first rule is do not contact her for four weeks. I'm three weeks in. However, I read iNvestors are best dealt with by keeping you in her mind, otherwise she'll be looking for the next investment. In light of this new info, should I drop her a line to keep in touch? Or is NoContact more important to maintain until she contacts me or the four weeks is up?
Thanks, you guys rule!
@Goodguy206, and Magnum, these girls obviously have their own lives and so should you, if you don't have a life that is busy then get one, make her want you and want to be a part of your life, not your life. @Goodguy206 if this girl see you guys together later after school then make that a topic of discussion girls like a guy with a future strategy, just keep it real, be honest and have integrity, if you say you'll do something do it. Go see her on a weekend and keep it light and fun, no pressure. @ Magnum if you haven't figured out why you two broke up then figure it out and after the 4 weeks is up, contact her and be friendly but don't mention the relationship, she may still have some hurt feelings about it. She does need time to miss you, 4 weeks is good, don't get desperate she can sense it, women are much more adept at understanding social dynamics then we are then are taught this very young and we are not.
ok i just discovered this system & I WANT! however i dnt own a computer or laptop so how can i obtain this knowledge? The only internet access is my job & public libraries. I nvr had any problems meeting & talking to women but I constantly get thrown in the "friend" department!
@ Rawdogit, if you can download the files, to you computer at work you'll have them there, the PDF guides that come with the videos are reminiciant of the videos. They contain all the relevent info you'll need, I would get the one add on Seduce Me, and if you want to get the most benefit from the system you need to stay on for the membership, that will run you about a hundred bucks a month. You know you could get yourself a used laptop from Ebay for a couple hundred or just go to Walmart and pickup one for about $350. McDonalds now carries wifi access as do many other areas if your in a metro place. You are allowed to download the files that are given to you but the videos remain in the membership site. It's all good content and very useful.
When it comes to picking up chicks and staying out of the friend zone, you need to have the attitude of take it or leave it, be friendly, be cocky, be funny, be masculine, assert your natural dominance and leadership, women are people too regardless of what they look like, never be intimidated by a woman's looks. When it comes to getting out of the friends zone, you need to have a perceived sexual value this doesn't mean boasting about anything you have, infact make any conversation about her, and turn everything she says into a joke, unless it's about a dead loved one, then don't go there. When asked about what I do, as with all the interview questions women commonly ask I tell them I'm the guy that puts the cotton in the pill bottles, and say yes I can tell you there is an art behind doing it, I tell them I take about 2 inches of cotton of a roll fold it in half then grab the pill bottle and stuff the cotton in with one finger then I get them to try it, I have them cup their hand like holding a small bottle then I get them to take their finger and poke it between the thumb and index finger while they pretend to hold this imaginary bottle in their hand, and of course this has a sexual inuendo about it, then I tell them they do that so well they must get alot of practice at home and I do this with a lot of fun energy and a smile, if they catch on they may slap you on the arm, and playfully pretend to be angry or hurt, just gage their reactions if they get pissy you can move on or change the subject. The key thing is you have to escalate things on a sexual level otherwise these girls believe you just want to be friends, they'll have no idea you want sex and just do this without being desperate and needy too, you'll come off as creepy. Depending on the type of girl will depend on the type of interaction you'll have with them.