But how do I figure out the "why" of the split-up? On the surface, it was just an argument, I don't even really understand what it was about. But she always would come back after a little fight. Or do you mean the underlying cause? Pandora's says an iNvestor will never really leave until she's convinced she's fixed you. If that's it, how can I be more "fixable"? Maybe she's convincing herself subconsciously because my inner game isn't what it was when we met. I've been keeping busy and improving myself now, but is self-confidence and not being desperate really all there is to it?
Also, the four weeks is about done, yet now it is almost Valentine's Day. I don't care about the holiday myself, but should I wait to contact her until after? Or is V-Day something I can take advantage of?