Re: The Legend of Piracy & Treasure Hunting
Thanks bro. That's very comforting indeed to hear such timely encouragement. Awesome. Yeah I am not trying to force anyone here to be anything they're not. All I am saying is this is what I've become/am becoming. It's nice to know more Pick Up Artists putting in their time with more than just Inner Game and really setting themselves on paths to self-improvement.
Originally Posted by Dizzie
Some people are born into greatness and some people have greatness thrust upon them I think the quote goes. I have it thrust upon me. It is in no way in my own estimation when dealing in terms of greatness, to actually pursue it. It is simply to pursue the best for my life in every way.
A ton of hard work for sure!! The rewards are definitely rolling in. To go from Ex-communication from Church Dating (not Church itself) and having NO ABSOLUTE CLUE how to talk or relate to women hence my lack of pre-selection to now? Having said I have learned to master my craft?!
What I mean is.
Well know I know HOW to get the 10. 9's are my specialty though and I can order them up like hot cakes. 10's are a bit of a challenge but 9's I can have my way with no problems.
To going from that. To this. Yeah big demographic change. In fact it may be happening for the better having this little short lived break before I head back out there next year. Now I know how to get the pull or number from any chick, it is what comes after, the afterglow that I need to reckon with.
And yet my Afterglow seems to be taking them on my original journey to somehow get better at all this. To go from begging and groveling to picking and choosing is a big change! I have been approached time and after and turning chicks down. Then telling chicks "well that chick just tried to take me home and I told her to go home packing" and them say "what if I asked to take you home?!" and get all mad and jealous to just a story it definitely gives you more of the power in your pocket.
You gotta see it like I see it.
The Legend of Piracy
What I mean is..
A guy (preferably Pick Up Artist) goes on an adventure, series of adventures, or voyage to find himself in search of "chicks". In said concept I don't put all the pressure on "getting the lay" per-say as I do "getting the girl" getting you the girl nets you the lay and you can do more with the girl than the lay. So I go for the heart rather than just the mind.
So a guy goes on an adventure to score chicks in this proposed model I have just presented you. This is what many men consider "the struggle" netting the lay while forgetting the girl. End result? They settle for the first hottie. Man if I had a $1 for everytime "I" settled and banged the hottie I would be in the big bucks and having been tied down already with kids, etc.
But I choose to de-compartmentalize my struggle. Many men see this and forego the struggle and just settle for the first hottie and instantly she has him "locked in". I have NEVER been locked in. The lock in always is an epic fail on their side. So it is simple math. No matter the hotness I never settle. Because I won't allow myself to settle until I have settled on who I am and accomplished what I have set out to accomplish. My plan is to have chicks compliment me but with the baggage or burdens.
I guess you could call it getting whipped or whatever. Well yeah I have never been whipped. What I am saying is girl's any girl don't have these "adventures" men have due to the Model that MM presents and what I present as well. But I spin it to say Piracy MM tends to gravitate towards the term "tribe" or "tribal leader". I wouldn't go as far as calling myself a "tribal leader" since I see MM far more qualified but I do classify myself as A Pirate in the Pick Up Scene a innovator of my own reality. Is that not Pick Up? It is. To quote the words of the great Mystery a good Pick Up Artist "brings them (HB's) into their reality (PUA), which is a self-created one not self-realized". Not verbatim but something like that.
So in essence my goal is not to "become" a guru like MM that's impossible. MM is famous. Becoming famous is a miracle in and of itself. But my quest it to merely become what they teach "the disciple" or gleanings of the teaching. That is what I must become. Think of MM like Morpheus. The quest for Neo is not to become Morpheus "the teacher" the quest is to become greater than the teacher. Not in terms of famous or popularity but in terms of application and practice.
To me the Gurus live a shallow life. Travelling the global to pick up chicks they see for a weekend and then drop to hit the next boot camp. That to me is silly. No life. Who cares if they can get Super Models and Porn Stars if they can't ever see them again? Or at least almost never? My grounded lifestyle set to a permanent geographical area gives me many things Gurus never get. Actualization. They act out these things for weekends and then rinse and repeat. I follow different cycles though. I cycle through rotations (something Gurus don't have the liberty of thanks to "travel") of chicks and one of my goals is to get a 30 girl text rotation. My record text rotation is 4 girls. I would like to get a 3 girl sex rotation so far only gotten one night stands though been offered sex through relationship but I usually bail in fear of pregnancy and long term commitment.
Also being grounded I am able to actualize data, formulate a Summer plan, have a route, build a foundation. These are things I don't think Guru's have access to. Sure they have the high life and the Vegas style baller lifestyle. But I have something better than money. Satisfaction of life. There is some things money can't buy. Personal happiness and satisfaction are just a few things. I am not against the Guru lifestyle all I am saying is my lifestyle is better due to the freedom from travel I can barrel into any relationship with only time and money as my investments. For a Guru to maintain it would be a life upheaval.
Anyways I don't want to get too much on that rant. Anyways like was saying a man's struggle is a woman. A woman's struggle is usually child-bearing. So where a man such as myself can become a sea-scurvy dog sailing the metaphorical seas to bang and bag salty wenches a woman doesn't have this privilege. It is based on the MM model women desire S & R or survival and replication. Simply your money or you looks. But it could be your body or your status etc. Either way you have to provide one or the other MM says or you don't get the lay. I tend to gravitate towards the looks department and struggle with the money aspect. But because of the looks I have girls I date, score with always overlook the money factor.
So this is what I am saying. A women does not have it hardwired into her to go on all these adventures seeking men. They are the receptacles not the voyagers. A man's quest is to find himself. A woman's quest is to understand her mind. When you understand women "don't go on voyages, sail the seven seas, or wage battle on the elements" you will understand these terms and words. The salty wenches were the after effects of a Pirate at sea and thirsty for a salty wench.
The main reason is the S & R like I said but it is also anatomy as well, women have babies and men have more sexual freedom. Due to the child bearing aspect women make it harder for men to obtain the treasure ie lay and try to tie him down with relationships, commitments, etc. So due to the difficulty women face they don't get adventures. They don't get voyages. They may live the party life but that is not something relationship related.
In all this explains why when I dressed up like a Pirate once and was all wasted with my girls (Pick Up Plunder) I said "I'm gonna take a voyage" and one of my girls said "I wanna go on your voyage". Some time after they tried to have an orgy with me and due to my Pirate nature my girlfriend gave me free reign of hooking up with her friends like insisting I go home with one of her girlfriends. I tell you man when you are not tied down like I am I game them all. So once I got a girlfriend it opened up more girls which were her friends and they saw that I was awesome and tried to all have a shot at me, called me baby, wanted to take me home, etc.
So it is different for me. I play the game and I play it well. They know almost without knowing what kinda a guy I am. I want the connection but no commitment. My EX-GF loved it because I never became attached but in the end she got super butt hurt because she was falling in love and I cut her loose to focus on myself. But that never stopped me from being a Pirate.
In fact I need to up my game a little bit.
Adventures in Allure
Again the Pirate thing. These girls cannot have adventures of their own. Yeah girls generally have more things going on in their life. But guy's have more freedom. So when I went out with my girlfriend I had all the fun and for her it was this guy or that guy. For me it was the fun. Due to this, this is why many times the guy has to lead the relationship. The guy has to call first. Text first. Decide to date or hookup. Decides where to date. For instance my girlfriend I decided where we went first and then we went on from there but in the end I was leading her to doing things I was already doing or had fun doing. So when we talk in terms of Piracy we are talking how much fun can you actually have. My Beast Mode plan lays it out..
Water Park Season Passes
Amusement Park Season Passes
Art Show Day 2's
Arts Festival Dates
Daygame Insta-date adventures
Costume Parties with girlfriends
New Year's Party Hookups
These are the types of adventures I am talking about that most women typically cannot have due to not actively pursuing these things, they merely do it for the fun. But I do it for the hidden agendas and such. I attach value to these events and carefully select large social gatherings for maximum impact.
In so doing a typical Summer has me talking to regular people "My Girlfriends" A term I use a lot. Most guys like I said "settle" so you often hear the term "my girlfriend". But I was explaining to my P.O. what happened on July 4th when I got busted well "my girlfriends were busy" so I am not the typical guy by any stretch of the imagination and to go from fighting for no girlfriend to be swimming in plenty is kinda crazy. But when you deal in large volume like I do it is just simple mathematics and execution. Look for more in part 2.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.