As soon as I walked in, there were these girls on the way out that said "you're hot" and wanted me to go get pizza with them. I walked with one of the girls with my arm around her and asked how old she was. She said she didn't want to tell me because then I would only like her because of her age. I asked her if she just wanted to make out.... she said she would if I went and got pizza with her but she wouldn't fuck me. I decided to just go to the bar/club that I had intended to go to. I probably should have asked her name and got her number, but I didn't. The girl I had my arm around said she was looking for "something real," and if I were to be honest... she wasn't hot enough for me to want anything "real" with. And the definition of that is having kids in my opinion, but I don't think she is ready for that at the age of 18 (guess).
Then, when I was walking in, I was confident that the girl just called me "hot" so I asked these two Asian girls... "do you think I'm hot too?".... their boyfriend or male accompaniment stepped in like he was protecting them, not that I was scared of him, but I wasn't going to make a big deal of anything. I'm not there to get in fights, but maybe I should have been nice to him and could have talked to them and got closer to the girls.
I noticed there are a lot of hot girls with "weak" guys... guys that I don't think could protect them in any real sense of the word. Not that that matters all that much since we live in a society with police.... but still I have heard that is something they are looking for both from books and from some of their mouths.
I am not intimidated by beauty. This is a good thing. I have been around so many hot girls in the past 8 months that it is rare to see a girl that makes me go "oh my god."
If I knew a few good openers, I could use them on anyone. But I still fail at this point. I don't think I would know what to say if me and Sofia Vergara were sitting alone at a bar together unless it is to tell her about my business, which I hope to make me a multimillionaire within a few years.
Can anyone on here describe the "meet" phase of the Find, Meet, Attract, Close model? I am sure I am over thinking this... but how simple should this be? "What is your name? How old are you? What do you do?" Is there anything I'm missing and what information should I provide about myself?
As far as the ATTRACT phase, other than the fact that some girls will find you physically attractive if you go around enough of them.... I think that my value is in my business and I don't think any of the other guys in the bar/club have this type of value. In 10 years, I will own one of the largest home building companies in the United States. This is my true belief and I will make sure of everything to allow this to happen. What "excites" me in life is when my credit score jumps up so I can qualify for larger loans and with better terms. I spend most of my day planning and pursuing business ventures, so this is a part of my "identity." I think this gives me more actual value than even the DJ's at the club that only make a few hundred dollars per night, but the girls there are young, so they might respect that stuff.
At one point, I remembered a line from one of the books that said that girls are hesitant to become invested in any way with anyone that is of low social value or of "dubious intent," and it really got me thinking what are my intentions with these girls (that I barely talk to at this point)... if it is dubious in any way, I should not expect them to want to be around me at all, so I should watch my thoughts and make sure they are not disrespectful.
At another point, I remembered a girl I met online one time that I basically had slurping and gagging on my cock.... this is basically what I want from these girls... but it is a little trickier to ask so directly for such things in a normal social environment rather than some "freak" you might meet online.
I did not cross the "social hook point" with any group that contained girls in it. I will go back to the same place very soon. I like that place. It is a college bar/club and is always packed, although I do go to a lot of places.
I thought about preselection and knew that if I had a girl with me, that the other ones might want to get to know me better. How do you get that first one? I have no female friends at this point... or male friends for that matter.
I saw guys dancing real close with girls on the dance floor. I wonder how they got them to do that and if they were going to have sex later that night and were those guys as good in bed as I am and would they eat their pussy like a madman like I would....
I go out alone. I am 28. I would guess most of the girls there are 21-24. I am already "graduated" from school and run a business.
I think that "Direct Game" is best for me. I'm not there to waste time. I see the girls pussy basically busting through her shorts..... I want to get in there and I hope she wants me to as well.
At one point, I started talking to a girl who was not that hot who was sitting by herself just because I thought it would be easy practice...
Me: Why are you sitting by yourself?
Her: I'm good... (as if to say... "why are you even talking to me?")...
....not that I cared what she thought because she doesn't know who I am and she wasn't that hot anyway.
There was one girl, a bartender, that was so beautiful, I would give her $1,000,000 to be mine and this is something you see rarely.
I got to thinking about relationships and I know this isn't necessarily the point of this forum, but it is a fact of life.... is that something I would want? Maybe with the right person.
I am not good at idle conversation or small talk.
And at certain points of the night, I start thinking about my death and the line in one of the books that says that the whole purpose of life is reproduction and that you must reproduce before you die. Lol.
On my way out, I see a bunch of girls dancing drunk by themselves and I see the difficulty in getting my "serious" world of business into their world of drunk dancing and that fact that I spend my days growing a business that will be very large and it kind of gets reduced to nothing in the face of drunk, dancing girls.... but I don't have a lot of resentment or anything, they are just girls having fun.....
What do you think?
Any comments or suggestions?
And here's a few pictures of the place, not that you need to know what a club looks like, but here it is...
Oh yea... and at one point in the night, I thought how cool would it be if I bought a Lamborghini... because I had decided on a Rolls Royce... but I think a Lamborghini would be cooler. I think that would get me a lot of attention wherever I went, but maybe just would be a waste of money, who knows... but you only live once, so if I can afford it at some point... why not?