Doing what YOU WANT is the key Pick Up Mantra I have now!!
Don't go overboard with this one because some jerkoff claiming to do everything HIS way is a douchebag. Anyway a Nice Guy with a bad boy Edge is how you should view this thread as it is how I sharpen my sword. Now no I would never say become an A-hole or be an A-hole but A-hole mode is okay because broads will put you on blast and get in your face and A-hole mode works great for an ice cold female cuz some whiny dude would cripple in those situations.
Anyway about today....
Do WHAT YOU WANT and WHEN YOU WANT IS the key Pick Up Mantra::
Why do I feel this way??
Well I am not a rook/rookie, and let's view it like a game of chess shall we?
If I were trying to become a Pick up Prince/King what are my actions/steps?
Step #1 Don't get weird
Step #2 Don't get weird
Step #3 Be weird naturally not unnaturally
I think the issue stems (I am a 3 year veteran and next year looking to close some high end goals) from guys getting weird on the issue of dating or going out.
EVERY TIME and I mean EVERY SINGLE TIME I got weird on a chick she threw me to the curb. I think it is more than okay to BE WEIRD. In fact encouraged. We need more weirdness to this normal life. The issue is making things weird at the wrong time, or being weird in general and having no calibration or worse getting weird on a topic.
Weird things (lessen chances)
Meeting a chick and first time going AFC or in general going AFC too much
Not meeting ENOUGH chicks
Focusing on one chick (oneitis)
Pursing a chick too hard (neediness)
Now I think the explanations of these matters may come at another time but either way let me break it down a little bit.
I am a 4 year veteran in the scene and set a goal more myself every year and accomplished them!!
Year 1 Approach frenzy (nearly 100)
Year 2 Get a cougar (dated a 45 yr old HB8)
Year 3 Date an HB9 (Dated an HB9 for 3 months and DUMPED HER)
Year 4 Get an HB 10 (Actually HAD THEM COMING TO ME EVERYTIME I went out)
So how in the world did I go from a AFC dude being scared sh!tless to approach a two set of a 6 and 7 in a low key bar to BEING APPROACHED by 10's in a high profile bar??!!!
Now That I can game 10's do you think I would waste my time on anything less? NO
So next year with a 10 being THE STANDARD I plan on getting laid by said lazy 10 and getting laid in general (7's are okay though against my wishes may need to start somewhere in terms of seduction)
Just for a base operations but once a bag a 7 I will try an 8 then a 9 and so forth if the 10's don't put out in worst case scenario.
Besides the point though my main goal next year is BECOMING THE MAN. Going all out with my tatts, getting some changes made, cutting some BF% and owning my Pirate Pick Up Persona.
So how is it going?
So I know HOW TO DO IT.
I have been getting a lot of responses, reactions, and emotional charges from 10's lately. That's right!
On facebook, dating websites, being approached at the Bar, and being hit up randomly online and seeing lots of results in field I think it is safe to say "I have it".
Now it is only locking down the GIRL I CHOOSE. Not settling for some 9 (which I dumped) but going for the girl I really want.
So I am making it a regular practice at getting really good at talking to 10's which is working. I talked to 2 10's this past month on facebook which is nearly impossible due to all the high volume they have going.
Anyways I have a couple of targets (10's only) in the pipeline and will unleash them next Summer (My Beastmode) and unravel the truth of their loyalty.
The thing is how do I know I have it?
Doing what I want?
Because of my base perceptions of the 10 started as
"She is a 10 she can have whoever" "She will do whatever" "The rules don't apply to her"
EVERY SINGLE 10 I have dealt with is extremely taxing and difficult and totally different from the next. You can pigeon hole 9's but not 10's.
Except for one thing....congruence.
I think the One Rule that does apply to 10's that trumps all the lower rung chicks is to have congruence. I think any 10 I have dealt with have all kept me to a brian boy boytono mentality. As in own yourself, rock yourself, and be yourself.
The trouble is 10's make my head all screwy and hard to think clearly. In doing this I can get away with ALMOST ANYTHING. I can SAY ALMOST anything. I love this kind of liberty I don't get with other chicks.
For instance I am working on a couple of 10's right now all of whom HAVE ACKNOWLEDGED ME.
So all 3 are online (No longer online so no more in field till next Summer)
But what's interesting is that I tell them whatever I want, I do what I want, I don't try to hide who I am to impress them but most importantly I keep my attention to them limited (to prevent oneitis)
In doing this when I DO TALK I get responses!! I do this for practice of communication with the upcoming no doubt next Summer hookups and arrangements.
In so doing this practice I feel almost challenged to talk to a 7 or 8 and "GAME HER" because it is insulting to me. I don't like them instantly.
I have gotten so good at game I no longer need the crutches and when I see a 7 or 8 that used to make me go AFC now I am shunning them like the plague.
I go all out on my 10's and the rewards are showing. It is still early now that my Pick Up Persona and things have materialized I will focus my next pick up stretch in the playoffs with the 10's.
Again how do I do this?
I say what I want (charming)
I do what I want (non-neediness)
I act how I want to act (low outcome independance)
I have stopped saying what I think they think I should say. I stop doing what I think they want me to do. I do the opposite and surprisingly it works! The only struggle is to do exactly what I want and sometimes my mind says this is the right thing to do or say and then I wait 10 minutes and think of something better to say and realize that other thing was what she wanted me to say but my mind playing tricks on me.
So the struggle is knowing myself now whereas it was always trying to appease them.
My plan of attack is simple
Much easier that way.
One of my current romantic interests aka 10's recognized this lol. Instead of a message or relationship request my first contact was an invite to a music party to which I got a cryptic reply (most women are this way) she didn't say anything to me directly but wrote on her wall some cryptic message about me.
To a complete stranger I felt a little spoiled being acknowledged subconsciously by a 10 that I actually liked it was a big ego boost definitely not the first time but felt good.
She blew me a hidden kiss, I replied and she liked what she heard. I spoke from my heart that time. And we haven't talked since but the important thing is we are still connected on there and my plan of attack is only inviting her places NOT talking (aka time wasting)
She saw that I was trying to wrangle her up for a hookup and I corrected her saying subconsciously through sub-communication No it is an EPIC HOOKUP. I knew it she reacted the way I predicted and submitted to my dominance.
Anyway she is still in my target list but the important I am saying is that she saw the way I was acting this I will only get what I want and totally called me on it so I was surprised a 10 acknowledged me but at the same time understood me. That was a big change. Now she knows I am probably only trying to use her but that is the goal to win the game of chance.
Say what you want
Deploying this full force in Beast Mode next year. Adding Knowledge to my experience to see what happens...
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.