One of the most attractive qualities to a woman is a man who is power and leading.
I will describe here the Mindset that allows a man to access that power so the tactics can flow naturally.
note: (I may write a post about the tactical side when I have time)
POWER and LEADERSHIP: Imagine you are leading an army into a war. Everyone in your army is waiting for you decisions and is expecting you to increase their confidence. You might be feeling afraid yourself but on the first sign of uncertainty your army will become even more afraid and this will get you to loose your war. What about if one of your soldiers tries to lead the army rather than you! You must not allow that because in that case you lose your credibility and lose your POWER! Now with women you must commit to this frame of thinking. You should be more powerful than her and you must never show fear of her. Any sign of weakness like (Those happen when you feel weak) :
- Weak eye contact.
- Stuttering words.
- Looking at the ground.
- Blushing because of embarrassment.
- Moving fast like you are being chased.
- Touching with hesitance.
In a war you must be always POWERFUL and LEADING but with women that isnít always the case. Women want to know that you possess such qualities but at the same time that you value them and love them. ďI donít want to appear needy and I want to show her I am above her and she must prove herself firstĒ. Let us examine this stupid belief which has been blinding the community for a long time. Before entering the community, we used to think that by buying women stuff and doing their stupid tasks and being their GIRLFRIEND and showing her how much she means to us she might suddenly fall for us. Apparently we were just girlfriends L . Then you entered the community and learned about stuff like cocky and funny and other nice games like acting as if you are gay or FAKING IT and acquiring crazy mindsets then suddenly you became addicted to the instant gratification of attraction (Her laughter and overt signs of interest) so you concluded that the more you do this shit the more attraction you will get. WRONG!!!
You are still the same LOOSER because you are still doing things to IMPRESS women. First it was materialistic things and then it transformed to funny games and inner game bullshit. You need nothing of all those things!!!
Have you ever watched a real player work a club? He really doesnít care what will happen. He isnít impressing women. He is Selecting them and getting them because HE KNOWS he can and IS ALLOWED TO! Not CREATING REASONS to allow him-self to get her. I have gotten results because I did what I want with no EXCUSES and with full POWER and NO HESITATION during my ho chasing days. Like three seconds same day lays with NO rapport ) because when I did what I WANT and not followed a set of rules which will allow me to do what I want only after I have IMPRESSED her with my GAME or anything else. It would be good if you believe the following reality from now on so you can game from the right mindset.
NEW REALITY: You are not out there to PROVE anything to anyone. You are ALLOWED and CAN GET a SUPER BABE without needing to PROVE anything first. No matter what happens, you are still ALLOWED to GET SUPER BABES with NEEDING NOTHING TO PROVE FIRST!!!!
YOU ALREADY PROVED YOURSELF BY BEING YOU!
YOU ARE ALLOWED TO FUCK HOT GIRLS.
Donít listen to your thoughts notice how they have stopped you many times from getting the girl of your dreams. Would you LOGICALLY stop yourself from GETTING the girls of your dreams? Would you give yourself BAD EMOTIONS and THOUGHTS? HELL NOO!!! Then those arenít your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions but your Egoís. CHALLENGE THese beliefs and act even if you feel shitty inside. I am talking about excuses that I saw aspiring player have like:
- I am not worthy of this girl she doesnít like me.
- I will approach her later because of whatever reason.
- I donít feel confident enough because I have bad inner game.
- I didnít study the right tactics yet.
- People are watching me.
- If I fail with this girl then I will lose value and all girls will hate me.
All those are limiting LIES. Donít follow them because if you do all what you will get is a night with porn and you right hand ! Your actions and behavior in this MOMENT are what you will get you the results in the FUTURE and not something you did in the PAST.
YOU HAVE THE POWER!