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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Alright, I talked to her today. I was thinking about the spot on the bench idea, but I saw her doing front squats yesterday, and I thought maybe I'll just ask her to show me proper form on those. So after she finished a set up pull-ups, I walked up to her to ask her. Everything about her body language said "go away", she took one ear phone out, and she sharply said, "What?". But I asked anyways because I had to at that point. She was polite and gave me some pointers, and then I left, thinking "oh well...that was completely opposite of the smiles I got the other day".

    Fast forward about twenty minutes later, she walks up to me and asks how the front squats went. I tell her about it, and then she apologizes for her demeanor earlier, and said she was frustrated then because she wanted to jump back up and get one more pull-up right when I approached her. We talked for a few moments, she was extremely friendly and smiling again, and then I finished up my workout.

    I forgot to ask her her name, so I'll have to try to do that tomorrow. But overall, I feel really good about the interaction, and am glad I talked to her. I can't say if there's any interest on her part, but it was nice to do a cold approach after not having done any for so long.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    nice work man keep it up, don't read too far into the reactions you get because you never know.. the other person could be having the shittiest day possible right then

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Fast forward about twenty minutes later, she walks up to me and asks how the front squats went. I tell her about it, and then she apologizes for her demeanor earlier, and said she was frustrated then because she wanted to jump back up and get one more pull-up right when I approached her. We talked for a few moments, she was extremely friendly and smiling again, and then I finished up my workout.
    she walked up and appolagized. she's at least interested in you. (don't confuse "interested" with "sexually interested") at the very least she is friendly towards you.

    notice, when you're unafraid and you just go for it, it always works out better than when you shy away. at the very least you may have a new female friend.

    keep talking to her on a regular basis and see where things go.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    keep talking to her on a regular basis and see where things go.
    Yeah, that's my aim. She always looks very focused, so it's difficult to know when is good to approach her. I passed by her in the gym again this morning and I got a nice smile from her, but she moving quickly in one direction and I in the other. Finished my workout without bumping into her again.

    Going out of town for a week tomorrow so I won't see her again until next week. Maybe that's a good thing--liking one girl too much is never good for a confident Mindset.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Yeah dude, just go on your trip and completely forget about her for a week. Focus on what places you can go to or things to do while you're gone and it will be a good mental reset for you. I always seem to do SO much better with women when I am just focused on chilling/having a good time and not "what should I say? what is she thinking? am I screwing up right now?" Basically, because of the Mindset you put yourself in, your entire body language and vibe changes, and generally for the better. Nobody will actively realize it, but the message will be sent. Once you're back though, do an exercise somewhere in closer proximity and then strike up conversation. Maybe she'll even say "her, I haven't seen you here lately" which would be a great sign because you can tell her what you did and also that she has been watching for you. Either way, nice job nutting up, it's pretty hard sometimes

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Yeah, that's my aim. She always looks very focused, so it's difficult to know when is good to approach her. I passed by her in the gym again this morning and I got a nice smile from her, but she moving quickly in one direction and I in the other. Finished my workout without bumping into her again.

    Going out of town for a week tomorrow so I won't see her again until next week. Maybe that's a good thing--liking one girl too much is never good for a confident Mindset.
    1. the gym is not a place that is very conductive to lengthy conversation, there are far too many distractions (just like a bar or club)

    2. your window of opportunity is closing. you need to get her number and get her out with you before she see's your procrastination as disinterest.

    3. liking one girl a lot is not a bad thing, liking one girl too much before you even know her is.

    4. its going to take more than just passing glances and short conversations to get her to your bedroom. you need to get her invested asap and invest enough time in her to make something out of this opportunity.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    you need to get her invested asap and invest enough time in her to make something out of this opportunity.
    Yeah, I don't really know how to do that.

    I'm pretty sure I'm just going to let this one go. I have to go to the gym too often, and I don't want to make things awkward by chasing her around the gym trying to get quick conversational bits that won't amount to anything.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Investment=chase you. For instance if you want to get her to chase you a little bit. (Good game+ high value) + you pulling back a little bit = her chasing you. This is her investing. Here's little bit of different insight on one of my blog posts I wrote up real quickly on this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    Investment=chase you. For instance if you want to get her to chase you a little bit. (Good game+ high value) + you pulling back a little bit = her chasing you. This is her investing. Here's little bit of different insight on one of my blog posts I wrote up real quickly on this.

    Insight on Male Neediness and jealousy | The Lifestyle Bible
    Ah, this: "(Good game+ high value) + you pulling back a little bit = her chasing you." Wasn't exactly sure how to make that happen. I don't have very good game yet, so it may be a while before I can elicit chase.

    Thanks for the blog link--good stuff.

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    No problem man. Feel free to pm me any questions you have, I also have a Skype I do advice type sessions for people needing advice.
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