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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by lifestylebible View Post
    No problem man. Feel free to pm me any questions you have, I also have a Skype I do advice type sessions for people needing advice.
    Thanks. I'd be interested in any input you might have on my other thread: https://www.puaforums.com/approachin...ttendants.html

    I haven't had any replies on it so far.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    OK, so while I have pretty much given up on Sonya, I'm also pulling my hair out at a phenomenon I witness regularly. There are a lot of guys in the gym that go up and talk to her. And every last one of them seems to make the most natural easy-flowing conversation with her, and she always laughs. I doubt these guys are in PUA, yet they seem to have no trouble engaging with her, while I, on the other hand, am over in some other area drooling on myself like duh duh duh cause I couldn't think of a damn thing to say to her other than my one awkward approach, which pissed her off.

    Seriously, what are these guys saying to her? Are they telling her cat jokes they saw on Imgur? Using bad tinder pick-up lines? Are they somehow talking about workouts and making it sound funny... "Hey look my nuts clang together when I squat, yuk yuk yuk". Arrghhhh. I don't get it, can't wrap my head around it, and have no idea where to start to improve on this.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    you're putting her too much on the pedestal, your vibe can show her that you want something from her, or without you even noticing it she catches you staring at her due to this obsession over her. All the other guys seem to be putting no pressure on the conversation where as you can be doing the complete opposite. They can also be attracted to her, but they are trying the approach of trying to become her friend and making a move from there so they come off as harmless. This is just a wild guess, if you'd provide more information on how they act around her and how you act around her with specific examples it would be easier to assist you on this matter. All I can say right now is try to look at yourself from a distance - how you're seen when you interact with her, I'm positive that all this value you've placed on her has affected your thinking.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Well, I do still find her attractive, but my recent post isn't really about her...it's about my inability to come up with anything to say to a girl in the gym. This could be any girl in the gym, and if I was forced to walk up and start a fun and entertaining conversation, I wouldn't have a clue how to begin. I'm just trying to get down the basics of how to do this. Specific examples would help, or if I could hear what these other guys are saying, I'd have something to go off of. But as it stands, I've got nothin.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Maybe shes just being polite. They cant all have game. Get creative, half of game is just being aware and making funny connections other half is delivery. Theres no generic line to say got to be innovative and creative,

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by kmm179 View Post
    Maybe shes just being polite. They cant all have game. Get creative, half of game is just being aware and making funny connections other half is delivery. Theres no generic line to say got to be innovative and creative,
    I hear what you're saying. Tyler Durden talks about getting out of one's head, which makes a lot of sense. But still, in the beginning, I think it helps to have a couple Anchor points to play off of. Sometimes I can just come up with things to talk about off the cuff (in environments other than the gym), but it's very much observational, and situationally dependent. There's something about the gym that just always keeps my mind blank.

    Here's the problem with the gym. Most women with any serious workout goal are very focused in the gym. They don't like to be interrupted, so timing is difficult. If you do manage to find a good opportunity, you don't have a lot of time to catch interest because you don't want to keep them from their workout too long. This is different than if you're at a bar or a club where the whole point is time wasting and socializing. Also, the gym environment is pretty much always the same, and I really struggle finding relevant topics to discuss that can be both brief and funny.

    Game at the gym kind of feels like someone put me in a grey room with no contents, just a floor, ceiling, and four walls, and then they said write an essay on how this room excites you.


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