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    Default Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    There's this cute girl at my gym who is always cranking out pull-ups. I'm trying to come up with a good way to approach her.

    I definitely missed a couple opportunities to talk today. Today the gym was especially empty/ I walked by her twice and she smiled really big at me twice. I wasn't prepared at all and I couldn't come up with a damn thing to say.

    She seems like the type that's easy to approach, but I just need to make sure I do it right, because I see her all the time and I don't want to make things awkward with a bad approach.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    You've been into the art of PU for over 4 years.. It's safe to say that you're overthinking things way too much..

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Dude! She's smiling at you, that means she wants to talk to you! Here's a great opener for you "Hi. I've noticed you around the gym before. I'm (your name)." Then put out your hand while you look into her eyes. After that you can talk about working out and maybe do some workouts together. You ARE at a gym!

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by Alergy View Post
    You've been into the art of PU for over 4 years.. It's safe to say that you're overthinking things way too much..
    I think 2011 was the last time I signed on here. I haven't really done anything since then--no dates, nothing.

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Dude! She's smiling at you, that means she wants to talk to you! Here's a great opener for you "Hi. I've noticed you around the gym before. I'm (your name)." Then put out your hand while you look into her eyes. After that you can talk about working out and maybe do some workouts together. You ARE at a gym!
    Sounds pretty simple. But what if she's just really friendly and smiles at everyone? I'm probably overthinking it as the other poster said. Hopefully I'll find another opportunity to talk to her next week.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by Magnetysm View Post
    Sounds pretty simple. But what if she's just really friendly and smiles at everyone? I'm probably overthinking it as the other poster said. Hopefully I'll find another opportunity to talk to her next week
    Even if she smiles at every one, the fact that she smiled at you makes one thing clear that you are not a creep in her eyes. So it's a green light. Remember, a girl would never smile at some one who's a creep (or at least most of the times).

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Just get her to spot you on bench press
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone1991 View Post
    Just get her to spot you on bench press
    I never do bench press, but I suppose I could start just to have the excuse to ask for a spot. She's often near that area.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Meh... I forgot how frustrating this all could be. I was completely ready to talk to her this morning. I walked past her three times, but unlike on Friday where she looked right at me and smiled real big, she wouldn't even look at me this morning. I couldn't get eye contact at all, which completely killed any chance of a passing hello unless I wanted to talk really loud and make it awkward.

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    Stop assuming. Just say Excuse me. Hi. Compliment her pull ups skills and go from there at least you could get a friend from the interaction. If she says leave me alone jerk then its ok. These days there are plenty of girls that work out and look just like her and can do plenty more pull ups than she can. .

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    Default Re: Hot smiling pull-up girl at the gym

    she smiled really big at me twice. I wasn't prepared at all and I couldn't come up with a damn thing to say.
    she wanted you to talk to her and probably found you attractive.

    you're never truly going to be prepared for any interaction, that's what makes it fun, being able to wing it and see how it goes.

    if you can't think of anything to say, just go with the obvious. "hey, I find you really attractive and I can't think of a damn thing to say to you" or you could have also gone with the obvious with an open ended question like "hey, I was wondering what your workout routine consists of, its working to keep you looking attractive, and that is what I want in my routine"

    yes its a little direct, but it will keep you from wasting any time if she has a boyfriend or is a lesbian or hates men or all of the above lol

    bottom line, saying anything is better than nothing, and Direct Game is easy because you don't have to think so much about how you're going to open.


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