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    Default Airport Approach and Flight Attendants

    When I left on my trip last week, I saw a very attractive girl sitting at my gate. I sat down next to her, and considered talking to her--I wasn't feeling much Approach Anxiety, and I was in an overall good mood. But the fact that I was in an airport made me second guess myself. I don't fly much, but I know there's a lot of paranoia in airports these days. Is it even a good idea to approach a girl in one?

    Second question: on my filght back last night, I got to talking to my flight attendant. She asked me where I was from, teased me a bit for trying to pay cash for my drink, and was overall very friendly. Part of her job I'm sure, but I wanted to try to make a connection there. Unfortunately, after a couple chats, she got rather busy and I didn't get a chance to talk to her again. Once we landed, I could have walked to the back of the plane and directly chatted her up again, but I wasn't sure if that would be too direct/awkward. Thoughts on that?

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    Default Re: Airport Approach and Flight Attendants

    Hey man, don't worry about it being weird. Even experts have awkward moments in the field (I have them during daytime and it has become hilarious. I just shrug my shoulders at the nearest person and they laugh). You'll never have a 100% success rate trust me. Instead of allowing this to discourage you, let in encourage you. There is no perfect timing, just do it. Become a social man. Sit next to her and say anything pretty much, it doesn't have to be a canned pickup line. Don't worry about her fear in an airport that is not something she is thinking about (in USA at least). She honestly is probably bored, as you probably were as well, and talking to her (even if she is married or taken and it doesn't work out) will probably make her happy.

    If she is single, then perfect she'll probably show interest towards a man with balls enough to say hello in public like that .

    Try this next time. Bring her up a bit. (Tired of seeing the negs posts on here man they don't work lol). Literally walk up and compliment her on something with her style. You know she spent probably about 2 hours this morning getting ready, when she could have slept in and been ugly? She wants to feel praise for this. Walk up and tell her you like her hair, outfit, shoes, anything really. Segue this into a conversation. Boom you're in. She will go home that night with a happy more self confident feeling, and source that from you. Easiest way to daygame. Learn social skills and calibration and body language, subcommunication, etc along the way. Feel free to ask me for tips on this.



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