What are yours that you use?
What are yours that you use?
none actually, you can dhv without telling any stacked-stories you memorized word by word. A high value male doesn't feel the need to seek validation from others, because his authority is unquestionable and it can be seen by the way he talks, by how he lets people treat him, how he treats other people, his body language and from his frame of mind - that alone tells a story about how high value he is. Yet if you do decide to DHV via stacked stories, make sure they mean some genuine emotion to you, something you're proud of, how you helped someone, how you did something that was hard - yet you still pushed through the obstacles and got what you were seeking. The biggest mistake you can make is probably seem like you're bragging - your plan to DHV will backfire and you'll only be seen like a low value male seeking for validation from other people to get "lucky" so be careful with what DHV stories you decide to tell. In your case - don't talk too much about your business unless you're talking about the great emotions it brings you (stay away from the topic of you gaining big $$$ unless you want sluts at your doormat). Also, a big mistake usually done by guys 18-25years old, is that they try to brag about how drunk they got at a party or what low self-esteem girl they banged to make theirselves look "preselected", their motive is good but be smarter than them and use a different technique (try making your stories as non sexual as possible).
Again - I leave you with only but a blue-print, use it as you please.
Agreed man, now don't get me wrong you can steer the conversation towards what you have achieved and focus in on the coolest parts, but don't make anything up here. PUA has gone off the deep end in this aspect along with negging. It's a gimmick that doesn't actually work, it creates a false foundation that will collapse.
That being said do I dhv sometimes? Of course. I focus in on things I do that are cool. Scoring in 99th national percentile of entrance exams, giving therapy to suicidal teens on weekends, having a cute dog, etc. But they are all true and things usually things I have worked for.
The trick is to create high value and then use it as leverage, not make it up.
Which of mine do you suggest using?
The time I broke my neck and back, lived homeless, went to prison and didn't take shit, cleaned up an RV park from drug dealers, own 24% of an RV park and apartment complex, will own more properties in the future, the time I talked to the daughter of a billionaire until I messed it up
Well as long as you can focus on the good parts of the story. Are you doing well now? I don't want to make you answer if you don't want to. But if you have a job now, you can talk about how you have self made your life up from this low point, and learned so much about yourself and the culture during. Girls love self made men.
Not only a "job," I own apartment complexes and buying more, but my dad helped me. I manage them. He bought them.
Sounds like you're doing well for yourself. Keep building higher value, and read some books on marketing/social skills. Raise yourself up even more every single day, and the girls will come
How do I keep building higher value? The only way I can think of is to buy more real estate, join a gym, and learn MMA.
And I should be more social in a less threatening way with other guys. Making make friends would help me, as I read in "Models," by Mark Manson.
Social skills, physique, raise others value, get cool friends, make money, learn game, inspire others, do good things, be really good at something (be a fantastic mma fighter, public speaker, therapist, anything), etc etc. These are just off the top of my head man.
In other words don't waste your time with netflix and other things. Read books and become a better man. This makes your value higher= you getting a higher value woman.
I don't even own a TV.
Could definitely work on social skills, though.
And the gym.