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    Default Opening everyone

    How do i get enough state and flow to keep on opening no matter what? Without being slowed down by poor responses, or good responses.

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    Default Re: Opening everyone

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    It's a paradox. You'll have to push yourself initially, then the act of opening itself will keep you in state, which in turn will keep you opening more... and so on...

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    Default Re: Opening everyone

    Imagine you walking up to a person, you get a poor response or even no response - you're obviously affected if this new to you. You're probably going to be thinking why it happened, what you did wrong - over analyzing. Keep approaching people even after you get poor responses, you'll be stepping out of your comfort zone and after dozens or even hundreds of poor responses, you'll simply don't care about it. While some give you poor responses, others give you positive ones, instead of thinking "what's wrong with me?" after repeated negativity you'll think "what's wrong with them?" since you're merely a friendly guy who has positive energy, how much of a stuck-up bitch does one have to be to blow-off such a person? Don't be afraid of poor responses, keep doing you

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    Default Re: Opening everyone

    No matter what man ypu will find people with poor reaponses. Not that they dislike you, some are just bitchy, others just had something happen. After my dog died I wasn't being a dick, but I was super closed off. People are people man
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Default Re: Opening everyone

    Very good point about opening fueling opening, sam981. Alergy, I see what you mean about repeat approaches being difficult dealing with negativity and especially if you tend to be analytical, which brings me to lifestylebibles comment about those responses being just the way they are, not necessarily for personal reasons. I appreciate it.

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    Yeah man you got it, you seem like you pick up on it easily, just need a little direction. We all do man. Anymore questions just holler bro
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    Yeah man you got it, you seem like you pick up on it easily, just need a little direction. We all do man. Anymore questions just holler bro
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    Default Re: Opening everyone

    It might be harder to picture myself framing an interaction as the girl being a stuck up bitch, yet Im wondering if the friendly positive method is more of a Mindset then a way of building momentum. Either way thanks for the perspective.


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