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    Default PUA are rare...

    I went out to one of the biggest bars in the city tonight, and despite being packed, I noticed that most people were in groups of the same gender or with people they came with...

    It is rare for a guy to honestly be out just to pick up chicks...

    I still have massive Approach Anxiety and I don't know why I'm scared of this because I've spent 4 years locked up and have to carry a taser at my job...

    It's pretty ridiculous for me to be scared of women...

    Although I have no problem leering at them like a creep...

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Although I did notice something in the eyes of the girls that I was looking at from across the room, and that is they want a guy with BALLS.... and I noticed that a lot of very good looking girls were out either no guy or a guy who appeared to be a wimp.... this was significant to me.... why would they want to align with a guy who had no balls and could not protect them or offer them anything?

    I don't know why I don't approach.... maybe because they will find out that I am not normal and that there is something WEIRD about me.... and maybe they will find out that I am slightly antisocial..... I have no idea.... I still don't know what to say or what would happen because I still don't approach....

    But during the day, I think about money and my business, but in the back of my mind, I know that even if I build the biggest business ever.... it will not matter if I can't even approach a girl at a bar....

    That being said... I have had "relationships" in the past where I lived with the girl that basically turned into screaming matches with destruction of property.....

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Something just occurred to me that has to happen before I worry about sleeping with any of these girls....

    I have to be their FRIENDS!!!

    I know that the "friend zone" has been termed some horrible place... but it's actually not... at least not TO ME..... because I have been accused of being antisocial and a little scary at times....

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Something just occurred to me that has to happen before I worry about sleeping with any of these girls....

    I have to be their FRIENDS!!!

    I know that the "friend zone" has been termed some horrible place... but it's actually not... at least not TO ME..... because I have been accused of being antisocial and a little scary at times....
    You dont say,

    Initially you approach the girl with utmost curiosity of her. As the conversation flows on, you get to know each other better (you become a friend to her) but that is when you use the rapport/connection to lead onto seduction. You go a little bit sexual, as in talk or if she seems receptive, you touch her.. The main thing is making sure you have a bit of sexuality in what ever you talk about, if you dont {you will fall into the friend zone}.

    The principals are very simple and basic, after talking to a lot of girls - you will start to see the road map yourself. You will see what to do and what not to do instantly. Redstar, approach girls and see how it goes.. IF your scared to ruin your reputation or just terrified, look down into that pants and pick up those balls and if your still scared, go to another town or state and practice.

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    I went out to one of the biggest bars in the city tonight, and despite being packed, I noticed that most people were in groups of the same gender or with people they came with...

    It is rare for a guy to honestly be out just to pick up chicks...
    I think you're missing the point of going to a bar. the idea is to go there to drink and have fun with your buds and to meet some cool new people. guys who go there solely to pick up chicks usually miss out on the fun (and the girls)

    not to mention that bars are the one place where ugly women can be picky. go to any bar at prime time hours, and you will see that there are almost always twice as many guys as girls. in order to succeed in one such mating market you have to be more attractive and more fun to talk to than half the men in the room just to get laid. let alone to get the most attractive girl in the room.

    bottom line, for average guys, bars are possibly the worst place to meet women. however they are a damn good place to get drunk with your friends and raise a little hell.

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    I don't drink and I don't hang out with male friends...

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post

    not to mention that bars are the one place where ugly women can be picky. go to any bar at prime time hours, and you will see that there are almost always twice as many guys as girls. in order to succeed in one such mating market you have to be more attractive and more fun to talk to than half the men in the room just to get laid. let alone to get the most attractive girl in the room.
    Love this, it's so true. I can't tell you how many average or below average looking girls have thrown themselves at me at work, or other events. But I go after one in the bar, and they look at me like I'm the chubby kid from the goonies.
    You don't need her

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    I don't drink and I don't hang out with male friends...
    then you really shouldn't go to bars lol

    you should definitely try making some friends. being isolated from other people has tremendously bad effects on your mental health. women can sniff bad mental health from a mile away. having no good friends is a huge red flag indicator to them that you are neither a cool guy or of normal mental health.

    women shy away from loners for good reason. those are the kind of guys who are most likely to do them harm. having friends shows people that you are a fairly normal guy and that you're not particularly violent (or at least not "apparently" violent) having good friends also enriches your life in ways I cannot begin to describe.

    but at the most basic level, having friends reinforces basic social skills necessary for success in nearly every area of your life. humans aren't made to be solitary creatures. we're affinity seeking animals by nature.

    at the very least every man needs at least 4 good friends to have a healthy social life and thus good mental health.

    I can't tell you how many average or below average looking girls have thrown themselves at me at work,
    women generally seek men who are capable in multiple areas of their lives. it makes perfect sense that women are throwing themselves at you at work. work is an excellent place to demonstrate some of your best capabilities. (ie. physical, mental, economic, social, and emotional capabilities just to name a few)


    having capabilities and being able to demonstrate them is the key to being considered a valuable male and the basic fundamental for practically every woman's reproductive choice.

    basically capability+ display of capability= value and value + availability = why a woman chooses a particular mate.

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Do you have any kids?

    ....

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    Default Re: PUA are rare...

    Do you have any kids?
    no.

    reproductive choice is a womans choice to have sex with you. in ancient times, having sex meant having kids or at least a high risk of having children. women still prefer to choose a man who possesses positive qualities that can potentially be passed on to their children (regardless of weather or not you actually make children together)

    redstar, I seriously recommend you find a good psychologist. from seeing your other posts, I think you have issues that need more than just a few blog posts to be solved.


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