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    Exclamation Attracted to Siren Women!

    For the last few months I was thinking to myself:"why don't I find most girls I see that attractive or want to get to know?" I just recently I finally found the answer...

    Turns out what I want is a siren! You know the girl who all the guys are after and is showed with attention from all the guys and is very feminine and attractive.
    I currently don't know if that is what I truly want or not but I think due to my lack of success with girls in the past I created that desire in myself. Maybe I just want to feel powered that I managed to get a siren, maybe I want status or ego boost..but what I realized is that was unconsciously seeking out sirens.

    The problem is I have no idea how to get them plus I am super nervous when it comes to girls like this maybe because I put more importance on them, or maybe because I don't know what to do.
    I was reading Mark Manson's book Models, and the main ideas of that book is to be nonneedy by investing in yourself and be more invested in your opinion of yourself than the opinion of others in you and to be vulnerable which means be honest with yourself about what tou want and be honest with others. If you like a girl you should tell her that without any other reason than to state your interested. Your intentions is what is important you don't say it because you want her to like you that is neediness.

    However, the book is great but it's not easy to be like Mark is advising for a guy starting out. I want a way.to actually talk to these girls and maybe get them maybe ill realise something I wasn't aware of.

    Any ideas on how to get these girls or any experience with them.

    There is one girl in my college who is like that, she showed me some interest, lately she stood near me hovering around with her body in my direction and touching her hair saying approach me but I chickened out since then her interest dropped and I saw her doing the same with another guy!
    She still looks at me but not the same way she used to, I would really like to hear your advice on this...

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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    Hey bro,

    You know what the first thing people are going to say, in fact you stated your mistake already man . Chickening out!
    You gotta have balls enough to go up and talk to her. Especially those types of "siren" girls you speak of. Those are the fucking awesome girls to date...

    I am openly dating one right now, she is the head cheerleader at a big college down here. Fucking gorgeous. It's awesome to see a woman who honestly can affect people around her without even trying.. just by looking so good. When you show her you are better than the other kids on the block, and she really likes you, that's when the real fun begins. I hate to say it, but I almost like it when people try to AMOG me, and I just grab her by the ass and kiss her in front of all of the guys. It makes you feel like the OG lol.

    The rewards are fucking awesome here man. You just gotta go up and talk to her. Having balls enough to tell her you are interested is a huge step in the right direction. If it doesn't work out with that girl at your college, there's so many of them around man. Just walk down the street and you'll see
    Talking to that girl, worst case scenario, would be awesome practice. So go for it bro! You've only got something to gain, nothing to lose.

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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    Thanks for the awesome post man!

    Great to know you are with a girl you truly like and I am happy for you and hope for the best.

    I live in a small city and to be honest it's conservative so finding girls like this is a rare. Plus she is not from here.

    It's a shitty place where I live so hearing you say just walk in the street and you'll find many like here is like telling me go win the lottery dude haha.

    Anyway, I will try my best and talk to her, she still seem interested so there is still some hope after all.

    Could you tell me some tips on what to do to standout and make her interested. I am thinking about using some push/pull when I first talk to her something to create sexual Tension and put me in the boyfriend category.

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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    Hey no problem dude it's what I do haha. Yea it's a great feeling.. but be warned those types of girls, once tamed, they become very attached because they filter guys like no other. Once you do make it through their filter, they can be hard to get away from you lmao!

    Well worst case scenario, travel man. Drive to the nearest big-ish place. They're all over man, and if you can't do that, find the niche. How small are we talking? Like what's the population? I have gamed in my hometown with a downtown area with like a library, 5 stores, and a police station. Not a big place at all... but there are niches everywhere bro.
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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    I live in Alexandria, Egypt. It is more conservative than say Cairo and the girls are not attractive at all. Some are a bit better but are not my style.

    It's a small town, I don't consider it a city and it is not easy at all to get girls except through social circle.

    Currently I am going through a rough time. To be honest, I am a bit frustrated, I never had a girlfriend and I find 95% of girls unattractive or at least not my taste. I don't have much game and really I am in a shitty shitty place to get girls. I really appreciate your help.

    This girl is not from here by the way, and she really stands out. She is not the most attractive girl, I've seen better looking girls in when I travelled to France and Turkey, but still she is very nice looking girl and I like her that is what matters.
    I was reading Mark Manson's book Models where to address vulnerability and how to be non-needy. However I liked the book but what I realised is that in order to reach that level that is to know what you want out of relations you got to came from a place where you already been with a few girlfriends and maybe slept with a few. But in my situation, where I have no clue what it is like to even be liked by a girl these ideas just won't cut it. Mark himself when he started improving himself he already had been in a relationship and he went through a few girls in the process where he grew as a person as he learned what he wanted from girls. He did just went from no idea about girls to vulnerable overnight.

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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    Ok first of all, stop. Just stop. Think. You basically said you want this girl because she is a status symbol. That right there is gonna get you killed. Every other guy sees her like that. She is a concept right now, not a girl. You believe that having her will help your life. Wrong. You must be awesome and show some type of self worth before you start gaming her. If you think she is a goal and not a person, you will continue to pursue her even though she may be a horrible person. Not worth it.

    There's a ton of reading on this site with more details so you can go check those out. Oh and Google says Alexandria Egypt has a population of 4 million so I don't think that qualifies as a small town lol. I'm sure there are plenty of girls in or near your town that are attractive.

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    Default Re: Attracted to Siren Women!

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Ok first of all, stop. Just stop. Think. You basically said you want this girl because she is a status symbol. That right there is gonna get you killed. Every other guy sees her like that. She is a concept right now, not a girl. You believe that having her will help your life. Wrong. You must be awesome and show some type of self worth before you start gaming her. If you think she is a goal and not a person, you will continue to pursue her even though she may be a horrible person. Not worth it.

    There's a ton of reading on this site with more details so you can go check those out. Oh and Google says Alexandria Egypt has a population of 4 million so I don't think that qualifies as a small town lol. I'm sure there are plenty of girls in or near your town that are attractive.
    No I think hes coming from the right place because he is just talking about preference, nothing more and he knows he isnt sure. Thats a good place to come from.
    But i also see where you are coming from about exploring who she is. Youll never know. A siren has those qualities because she is flirtatious and likes being the center of attention, but everyone knows the story of odyseuss..
    You should be awesome for yourself regardless of getting laid.
    This guy is thinking about getting experience, which makes practical sense. Sounds like you need more experience engaging. Youre right.


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