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    Default Need advice from those good at bar game...

    I am seeking advice from those who are really good at bar game... those who can consistently go to bars and pull girls home...

    Today, as usual, I was having trouble finding things to say.... I was approached by a set of two girls and I noticed that the questions they ask are very simple and these should be the questions that I ask other girls... they ask...

    "Do you come here a lot?"
    "What do you do for a living?"

    Things like that... and I asked them how old they are and they asked me back...

    It's very simple and I know this should be how simple it is and I am just overthinking it...

    At one point, it occurred to me that I should just collect numbers and then text if they want to come over a different day... but I think I should actually try to bring them home that night if that's possible...

    How do you get past the point of that "boring" (?) conversation? Or is that how it's supposed to be? Is there supposed to be anything more than that?

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    I try to avoid small talk at all costs to be honest. I read body language and say something fun and playful. Could be about her hair, outfit, or an observation about someone or something in the bar.For me I have to start off flirting and create a nice flow.

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    All what I mentioned above gets easier with experience. Youll get rejected alot everyone does, but get comfortable doing it build confidence and take it from their. Its just like muscle memory as long as your trying your always getting better and learning.Try some random spots, see if anyone places have trivia nights or anything like that.

    Im sober now but still pick women up from the bar. So went from drinking and picking them up super fucked up to not drinking at all. So now I roll with my friends DD and have been doing better. Wittier and sharper this way.

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    I don't drink for health reasons... Talking about boring stuff or something witty...

    I think what I need to work on is being generally sociable and approachable... I have been told that I don't look approachable... I don't look like I would have anything nice to say if someone talked to me and I look arrogant...

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    But even that compliment is just the opener.... doesn't the conversation have to extend 20 minutes or so? What do you talk about during those 20 minutes?

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    I get the same comments. I have a dick face (like bitch face but for guys).

    You can turn any conversation or boring question into a fun experience.

    her: do you come here often?
    You: Couldn't you check your logs for that?; Don't play like you haven't been following me around the past couple years?

    Said with the a playful goofy tone and a smirk. I've learned that I really have to exaggerate my tonality so I don't come across as arrogant.

    Once that's done, remember you only have to provide half the conversation. You don't have to carry it continuously if it dies out let it, sometimes lulls are good if you pull it off with right attitude. Don't demean yourself to an entertainment performance.

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    Quote Originally Posted by jwanderson54 View Post
    I get the same comments. I have a dick face (like bitch face but for guys).

    You can turn any conversation or boring question into a fun experience.

    her: do you come here often?
    You: Couldn't you check your logs for that?; Don't play like you haven't been following me around the past couple years?

    Said with the a playful goofy tone and a smirk. I've learned that I really have to exaggerate my tonality so I don't come across as arrogant.

    Once that's done, remember you only have to provide half the conversation. You don't have to carry it continuously if it dies out let it, sometimes lulls are good if you pull it off with right attitude. Don't demean yourself to an entertainment performance.
    not mine... lifted from i can't remember where...

    what do you do for a living?
    i usually go with either "I a Professor at McDonald's University. I oversee all of the nation's Ronald McDonalds."
    or "I'm a Bic lighter repair man for the entire eastern seaboard. You should see my apartment... filled with thousands of disposable lighter... You wouldn't know it, but it's dangerous work... I've almost blownup the entire apartment complex like five times...."

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    people put too much emphasis on these small interactions....just have fun with it.... pickup should be fun... if it falls apart on you who cares, cause at least you were having a good time, right?

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    people put too much emphasis on these small interactions....just have fun with it.... pickup should be fun... if it falls apart on you who cares, cause at least you were having a good time, right?
    I think I'm past the days of sarcasm.

    What do I do for a living? I own an apartment complex. I'd rather say that.

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    Default Re: Need advice from those good at bar game...

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I think I'm past the days of sarcasm.

    What do I do for a living? I own an apartment complex. I'd rather say that.
    how's that workin out for ya?

    play the game


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