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    rom9 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Did i mess this up (confort zone)

    Hi Guys
    I have usually struggled a bit with building comfort after the initial attraction and banter part. Thanks to feedback from this forum I am getting better. I have a recent case here that is a definite learning curve for me. Any inputs are appreciated.

    I know a girl from my dance lessons. She is slightly taller to me but I make light of it and I can make her laugh all the time we have spent together yet (3- 4 meetings in the last 2 months). I recently started to chat to her on Facebook (just a message a day or one in two days or so). Role playing (me as Alladin and she as jasmine). Chats going well. I invite her for a drink last Monday but she had a meeting with her friends and she asked me to join in. I did not go as I hung around with friends and told her I will join in as soon as I am done with my friends. She took it well and asked me the next day how my night went and all. All good till here.

    I asked her two days ago what she would ask the Genie to grant her as a wish. She said "I want to see a light in her life in 2016 to show me what to do with my life...hahahha and I want a ticket around the world :P " her words. I took the hahahah as a light comment and said " if u close your eyes u will see the answer. I know u will see me and in that case let me bring the Genie lamp and light ur way through 2016 :P" (I had to make the conversation a bit more flirty since I did not want to end up in the friend zone before I ask her out again)

    She usually replies immediately. But it has now been 24 hours and she has seen the comment but not replied. I haven't even wished her happy new year waiting for a response

    What do u think my next move is. I feel like she might have been offended that I was not sensitive to her opening up about a light in her life and so on (that i misjudged but only because I thought she was joking too)

    Thanks guy !
    Sharp learning curve here.

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    rom9 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Did i mess this up (confort zone)

    No takers? If you have any tips do put them on.

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    rom9 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Did i mess this up (confort zone)

    I can really use some help here. Thanks !


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