OK, so i'll keep it brief, (that didnt work)
met a girl in a bar, we chatted for about 20 - 30 minutes, she was with one other friend so nothing was laid on too thick but we really got along so i got her number and said we'd go for a drink.
texted her a few days later, couple of playfull texts back and forth n we sorted a date out for thursday. thursday came and i got a text in the morning saying she couldnt make it, she was sorry but maybe next week??xx
i texted back. saying she couldnt back out now i'd allready ironed my hat, (inside joke) but it was a shame and what was up?
ddnt hear anything, but wasnt too fussed.
sunday came and i got a text from her, 'bit last minute but do you fancy a spontanious drink tonight?
i was else where, replyed that after 4hr trainride a drink would be cool, meet me at 8 at the station.
all good all good,
met her there, she was looking lovely, took her to nice cosy pub for a drink, i got the first round, we chatted things in common, easy vibe flowing conversation, and lots of questions on her part and mine.
had a friend running a fund raiser night for student magazine i took her there next. it was a fun vibe, she bought the second round of drinks, i did some open mic freestyle infront of the crowd, she seemed to like it, we then sat down at the origami section and made some plains on the sofa, much more Kino at this point. had a little competion with some other girls, they were asking about my rapping etc all smiles so i guess this showed i had choice. any way, during the next poet/act i kissed her, (probably an hour and half into the date)and through out the next hour we snogged 3 or so times more, she walked me to my bike then we walked back to hers. kisses along the way, hand in hand, kissed her goodnight, (didnt actually make any future plans but at that point it seemed obvious we'd see each other) she thanked me for such an interesting and different night and we said our good byes.
soooooooo, for the flaking.
two days later i added her on facebook,
little message saying sumat like, i wanted to hear that greek frase from under the bridge again (we made out under a bridge while she was tryna tell me sumat in greek)
then texted her the 3rd day saying 'hey sexy lips, is your henna tattoo looking like a kids scribble in orange pen?x (we got a hena tattoo the same night)
still hadnt heard anything but wasnt really worried because the whole thing had seemed so solid, called her saint paddies day just to see if she was out for the parties, left a voice mail, nothing heavy, just, wasup, you out? give me bell be cool to see you, take it easy bye bye.
now, nothing, on facebook itstead of saying, awaiting friend confirmation it just says add as friend again, so i guess that means she didnt accept!
haha i really couldnt get this one round my head, everything seemed to go really well, and it didnt feel like anything in the successive days could warrant such a response, be it not the strongest game. other things like she was having an interview in a bar where my best friend goes out with the manager,
kino was two ways, found a photo of the night with her resting her hand on my leg.
so yes! very strange, reckon anyone can shed a little light on it, and also if there is anything i can do? me and my band are playing 2 gigs this week, Thursday and saturday ones at a big squat house, and shes quite an alternative chick. basically i cant see why she wouldnt wanna see me again, my ego hurts!
thanks for any response