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    Default Chat with bartender...

    It was a slow night at the bar so it was just me one on one with the bartender....

    I asked her name, talked about my day, what I did for a living, talked about the bar, how long she had been working there, and she showed me a bunch of videos that she was watching on her phone...

    I probably could have asked for her number, but I didn't because.... I guess I was scared... but, hey at least it's steps towards next time...

    What could I have done differently or better here so that my cock could be in her mouth right now... or maybe in a few days...

    other than... join a gym, dress better.... same as always...

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    Default Re: Chat with bartender...

    go to a different locale.....

    bartenders are not the easiest targets and seeing as you are having issues right now you should go after easier prey

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    Default Re: Chat with bartender...

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    go to a different locale.....

    bartenders are not the easiest targets and seeing as you are having issues right now you should go after easier prey
    Very wrong.

    This is why I should be careful who I seek advice from.

    I own an apartment complex

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    Default Re: Chat with bartender...

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I asked her name, talked about my day, what I did for a living, talked about the bar, how long she had been working there, and she showed me a bunch of videos that she was watching on her phone...
    Dude, I almost fell asleep just reading that lol
    How many guys do you think talk to her about that sort of stuff, everyday, just for a reason to talk to her? You're just a guy that killed some boredom for her while she was stuck at work.

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    I probably could have asked for her number, but I didn't because.... I guess I was scared... but, hey at least it's steps towards next time...
    This is a good approach and Mindset to be in! I would start with your conversations though; find little points in the conversation to introduce a sexual vibe, flirt, escalate, and THEN Number Close with success.


    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    other than... join a gym, dress better.... same as always...
    If that's what works for your confidence, then by all means.. otherwise will have little effect on the outcome.

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    Default Re: Chat with bartender...

    How many guys ask her those questions? None that night.

    I agree it's boring, but these are standard conversation you must find out about someone...

    You can't come on too sexually right away or they will think you're a creep... Plus, it's not all we talked about, I talked about my business...

    The key is to make Kino when you can and then Number Close...

    I also asked her about her hair and said it looks good...

    She will definitely remember me if I go back in there...

    How do you introduce a sexual vibe without whipping your dick out?


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