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    Default Beautiful bartender...

    There's this girl that is a bartender at one of the clubs/bars downtown. I go out A LOT... I know thousands of faces in my city... and one time I sat at her bar and she was by herself and her face was so beautiful, like one of the most beautiful faces I've ever seen... like I fell in love with it instantly...

    I don't even know her name.... I had gone in there once before and drank and said stupid stuff... but this time was different, I was dressed nice and my body language was leaned back and casual and she reached out and touched my shoulder when I got my drink and she didn't make me pay for it (it was just juice).... I probably stuck out by being one of the only people that goes in there that wasn't drinking...

    For all I know, she has a boyfriend... but I swear that I got some ioi's.... and she could be the mother of my kids if I play it right... you never know....

    What do I do in these situations when I see someone I really like?

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    Default Re: Beautiful bartender...

    1) you are letting yourself develop an infatuation without any substance.... y?
    2) i'd say let this one go bro... you've already created a mental situation where you've given her so much value mentally that the playing field is so unlevel that there is 0% chance you'll ever get with her. women want men who have value, not men who suck value from them.
    3) prob the best approach in the near future is approaching women in large volumes that you are just cute...not amazing bombshells... but just barely good enough for you. that way if you get a number or something you aren't gonna be calling a troll but at the same time there's little room for this kind on fantization.... that leads nowhere good and you know that

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    Default Re: Beautiful bartender...

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    1) you are letting yourself develop an infatuation without any substance.... y?
    2) i'd say let this one go bro... you've already created a mental situation where you've given her so much value mentally that the playing field is so unlevel that there is 0% chance you'll ever get with her. women want men who have value, not men who suck value from them.
    3) prob the best approach in the near future is approaching women in large volumes that you are just cute...not amazing bombshells... but just barely good enough for you. that way if you get a number or something you aren't gonna be calling a troll but at the same time there's little room for this kind on fantization.... that leads nowhere good and you know that
    But maybe she would like me... how do you know she doesn't have any substance? How do you know that I don't have substance?

    I haven't even talked to her and you're telling me "forget about" something that's never even happened or not happened...

    I wouldn't settle for someone I like less... I would at least talk to her....

    How many apartment complexes do you own? Why would she have value? No one's to say that she does or doesn't.

    I don't understand why the people on here seem to put bartenders on a pedestal. They don't make that much.

    I personally know of some of the hottest bartenders in town have trouble paying their electric bill.

    The "high Social Status" of bartenders is an illusion.

    But I would agree that I should approach others just to get more practice and be more socially calibrated first.

    And I have messed things up with girls in the past by being "obsessive," which I wouldn't make that mistake again. I am good at fixing myself.

    I have Approach Anxiety even to go into the place where she works because I know I would mess it up. There is nothing more to say to someone than "what's your name? How are you?" and if they like you back... it should be that simple...

    I don't know how to display value to her....

    And she doesn't know anything about my criminal record, which for those of you who know it... would be a good way to scare people off in the initial stages of things.... or even later on....

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    Default Re: Beautiful bartender...

    alright man i'm done.... i've tried to give you advice.... but you just don't want to hear it....

    best of luck

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    Default Re: Beautiful bartender...

    Quote Originally Posted by upperhandy View Post
    alright man i'm done.... i've tried to give you advice.... but you just don't want to hear it....

    best of luck

    What's your credentials?

    Your telling me not to talk to bartenders like they are some mystical people... when they slave for tips every day and have boyfriends that are old and make less than I do....

    Obviously, there are EASIER targets.... but it doesn't mean they're out of reach...

    Not for ME...

    What happens when you try to talk to bartenders?

    Why would I settle for less than I deserve?


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