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    WiseRaven is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do you bounce back quickly?

    So I've started getting into this only recently, and one big problem I have on my journey to becoming a badass is bouncing back quickly after being let down. I know everyone gets rejected and that no one is perfect. Today was one of those days. I have only done 3 sets on 2 different occasions so far (I'm trying to push myself to do more) and I was met with relatively good success.

    One thing that got to me more than I thought it would, (Backstory:I hit on this girl in class, she was actually hanging out with some dude, but I numbered down in the end) was that afterwards the next time I saw her, I couldn't muster up the gusto to come back with the same energy, and thus the other guy took here in, and my text (Which I waited until today to send) was ignored.

    Now I've read all these posts about not caring about anything and not to let rejection get into your head, but it took me a long time to actually hear myself, until the day was coming to a close. I know not to be wrapped up in one franchise and I know that its very irrational to get caught up into this.

    How do I actually put these things into practice so I can bounce back QUICKLY even if things didn't go well?

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    Slickwilly is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: How do you bounce back quickly?

    Just keep going back, no matter how you feel. It might be a little awkward at first, but if that's the case, it can only get better. Try remembering something funny, exciting or heart pumping to get your vibe back up and a smile on your face.

    as far as the text, I would need to know what you wrote before I can comment. Read the posts on texting by Tmal, he helped me leaps and bounds with that and how to think outside the box. And u gotta realize that his stuff doesn't work on everybody, so you have to adapt and try something different. Girls will come, no pun intended, and girls will go, have fun and be yourself. It makes it a lot easier in the future when you do get into a relationship, you don't have to put on an act 24/7

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    WiseRaven is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: How do you bounce back quickly?

    Quote Originally Posted by Slickwilly View Post
    Just keep going back, no matter how you feel. It might be a little awkward at first, but if that's the case, it can only get better. Try remembering something funny, exciting or heart pumping to get your vibe back up and a smile on your face.

    as far as the text, I would need to know what you wrote before I can comment. Read the posts on texting by Tmal, he helped me leaps and bounds with that and how to think outside the box. And u gotta realize that his stuff doesn't work on everybody, so you have to adapt and try something different. Girls will come, no pun intended, and girls will go, have fun and be yourself. It makes it a lot easier in the future when you do get into a relationship, you don't have to put on an act 24/7
    I will try again tomorrow. As for the text, I said something along the lines of "Hey! I didn't get a chance to talk to you again, its (name) btw. And I did see her in class, constantly going on her phone. (I texted her about 30 mins after class was over)

    I got a 2 texts back 10 hours later in the day, and another one in the morning. But I didn't feel good about texting her because she had her phone THE WHOLE DAY and didn't bother to text me until late night.

    "You don't have to put on an act 24/7. I agree with this 100%." Why do we have to play games even when texting you know?

    I decided to just let this one go, just because I didn't feel good about this whole situation, and it did affect me for most of the day, hence the post. Just knowing the fact she saw the text and made a conscious decision not to reply threw me off.

    I think one problem is once I number down, I call it a day and end up having all eggs in one basket.


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