I have experience that many times now and dont know how to control or change that..
I see a set of 2-3 girls, i would come to them, "so why 2 girls like you not dancing? your guys didnt show up? "
them: "no one offered to dance"
which tells me.. okay she wants to dance. sweet, but now i have to make sure her friend is having a good time so i either throw her to my friend or dance with both and then #-close with the target.
but sometimes, it doesnt go that well.. i straight up come to a girl and tell her "hey, why arent you dancing?"
her: "i dunno.. just waiting for a friend"
me: "wanna get a drink? you could buy me one "
her: with a wtf face expression "hh no.."
me: "well how about we make a bet then.. if you win i buy u a drink and if u lose you buy me a drink" (in mind i have the 5 lies games)
they usually agree but i get lots of IOD or they will turn the back to me which is a shut down.
some girls dig that when im cocky.. i make her really feel like im the prize and that im such a good looking, charming, and fun guy that she will never find anything like this again.. but some chicks hate it and turn back to their friend with the "girls coding" saying -he's an ass-
btw. if a girl has a bf.. and she asks me to go out side with her (after we almost made out in the dance floor - almost cuz she stopped me since her bf might see), we sit and talk, she is having a good time.. my arm around her, her bf comes in and she goes Sh1t hes coming watch out..
do you think i should text her im sorry for going so far with it and it was a d1ck move on my side or pretend like thats awesome and move on with it?