in a party, i made out with a girl for like 10min, got her #, had some sexual touching going and told her ill be back in a bit cuz i needed to get some fresh air and meet my buddy (obviously not for that reason lol but u get the point)
i come back to the dance floor and she is making out with one of my buddies.
now me and this guy dont really know each other but the names.. i mean we hang out like twice maybe but never talked for long to each other. so i see him making out with her and i tell him from his back "come on man.. bro's before hoe's isnt it?", he took of and i really appreciated it, and i got respect to him now. i take this girl upstairs and we having a bit of talk about how i left her for a sec and shes with someone else.. but i wasnt mad at all.
she goes "i dont even really know you, i mean we are here to have fun right?"
me: "yeah, and im not saying dont have fun.. go ahead.. i would love to see you having a good time. but i really felt like there is some chemistry between us."
her: "there is.. i just flirt and u should do the same"
me: "im not like that.. though, and how can i trust you now after you tell me all this?"
anyways.. stupid convo.. i felt like an AFC breaking up with a girl that i thought was 100% mine and realised how stupid i was for even bring all this up.
i end up somehow giving her and her friend a ride home and i asked "will you text me tomorrow moring, first thing when you wake up?"
she said yes and she did! she texted me "blabla.... hope you got home safely blabla.."
now my question is, this guy saw me with her, he saw the whole thing. then as soon as i left he went for it.. how could have i handled the situation better?
and dont get me wrong, i kept on doing my thing.. it just that i want that girl in particular.