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    So I'm a college freshman and in a lot of my classes theres really hot girls who look at me during class. One in particular I have a thing for (shes wayy hot, like 9.5, bigger butt would make a 10) I want to spit game to but ended up not being able to sit next to her so I'm just going to try talking to her if I run into her on campus. Anyway, when I catch them looking at me I look at them for a second and look away cause I start to feel like a creep starring at them. Is this irrational? Am I supposed to look back? I have a high amount of confidence I just dont want to look like a creep. If a girl in class seems to be checking me out how long do I look back at them? Do I smile or what? I have the confidence to do it if you guys say it will work. I just want to build some "yeah I think your hot" with them without looking like I'm staring at them. Then if I catch them leaving class I'll compliment what they are wearing and go from there. What do I do in the eye lock situation?

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    Default Re: Eye Contact

    Quote Originally Posted by Trickstar View Post
    I just want to build some "yeah I think your hot" with them without looking like I'm staring at them. Then if I catch them leaving class I'll compliment what they are wearing and go from there. What do I do in the eye lock situation?
    Get rid of the"your hot" complex. You need to open them somehow, since its somebody your going to see constantly brcause shes in your class, i would go indirect. maybe use a neg or compliment her hair in a teasy, flirty way (without coming off too strong!).

    If you catch a girl staring at you many times, you should at least smile or wave to acknowledge her. Id probably go with a sarcastic wave, like a, "why you always staring at me" wave.
    Good luck!

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    Default Re: Eye Contact

    If they look at you it means you got something they wanna look at.

    Give them a sign, go in, beauty is common, the more you do the more you'll be confident and it will be easy

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    Default Re: Eye Contact

    If you catch the girl staring at YOU, don't break eye contact. You will never be considered a creep because of this, since it's HER who's looking at you in the first place! Just smile and nod, acknowledging her looking at you, and HOLD the eye contact. If you look away in those situations, it's considered that you're weaker willed, so learn how to not do it.

    If it's too intense, holding her eye-contact for too long, consider playfully teasing her with gestures or making some other funny gestures - if you get a smile or a laugh from her at a distance - she's definitely into you and you should approach and talk to her right after class or as soon as you can.

    For most guys, holding eye-contact is hard at first, but like everything else, practice it and develop it, and NEVER break it first - let the girl know that you're confident and can handle pressure - it will make her that much more attracted to you.
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    Default Re: Eye Contact

    Yo Trickstar,

    I agree with Saulis on this one. Hold eye contact, comfortably. Relax your face and give her a knowing smirk, subcommunicate that "Yeah, I know you're into me. I know you like what you see." try to say that with your body language.

    Definitely approach her. NOT approaching her after you lock eyes...that would be creepy.

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    If she's holding eye contact with you, you can do 2 things: either troll and put your hand in front of your face briefly and take it off again and smile... or, do a confused face and go to her and ask: "It's 10 bucks. People pay for staring at me. But it's your lucky day, since I make discounts for colleagues! "

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    I did a social suicide experiment years ago in college. I had a girl I was into, and she gave me ioi's during art class. I invited her to assist with the project I was working on. She jumped in eagerly. etc. etc.

    a few weeks later, she and her boyfriend were across the room. I recognized the girl really liked her man, and I clearly was not him, so.... I decided to be a troll. She and I made Eye contact, I held it and smiled, and continued past the point at which she looked away, she really got uncomfortable and finally got her Bfriends attention, and got him privy to my stare, which I was still purposely holding. I got shaken and stopped. Nothing every came of it, lest it was creepy guy rumors happening that I never caught wind of. I do the social suicide thing on the regular basis, kind of to see how far is too far. This helps me keep a barometer on my own conduct. It also gives me sign posts to watch for in other interactions, and compassion for guys who are skeerd of crashing and burning. Don't get me wrong, I don't do this kind of thing often, and am not a sociopath by any means. (I hope) I am in tact with my emotions and conscience. I do the stare regardless of it, and it is not an easy feat. if only to Take Away the judgements I have of other guys whom are inappriate by being one of them, it is worth it. I am very compassionate in nature, and can now know what it is like to troll kind of thing
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    @Valance

    Leaning into those edges, seeing the outer fringes of social interactions, and then using that info to calibrate yourself...that's what makes a real life pimp, it also makes a truly successful man when applied to your life's purpose.

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    Interesting story JayBee. very interesting story; I might consider trying it myself.

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    Default Re: Eye Contact

    Its best to smile when looking, but be careful.

    You want to do a Gentle smile, like you would break the ice if you approach a girl, it also makes you approachable. This makes you look confident and not a freak.

    If you smile like (Ha, I just caught you checking me out) she will get embarrassed. This also makes you look arrogant, which is not confidence, its unattractive.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.


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