Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Page 2 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast
Results 11 to 20 of 51
Like Tree5Likes

Thread: Cold reading and pandoras box

  1. #11
    crobinson1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,780, Level: 34
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 120
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    Colorado
    Posts
    1,236
    Points
    2,780
    Level
    34
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    193

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    well just like in the section. she is a denier. she will be touchy and feely once she is comfortable with you and sees that you have potential to be the guy for her. Denier have sex or get intimate and touch when they have strong feelings for someone. What you need to do is build tons of rapport, and sexual Tension. But the sexual tension has to be under the radar and you have to also make her feel natural around you and that if things do escalate that you dont judge her as a slut. girls worry so much about being judge a slut that they keep from getting intimate with a guy becuase they feel that will ruin things. so you need to build rapport and sexual tension while be nonjudgemental and then using the proper strategy for this girl. she seems like either an investor, denier, idealist also known as a hopeful romantic. Or she is playing you and she is a tester, denier, idealist. Lots of testers like to seem like investor so you dont judge them so they will tell you lies about having sex or how many boyfriends they have had.lol but thats my personal opinion

  2. #12
    BMQ
    BMQ is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 145, Level: 2
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 5
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Location
    Ottawa Ontario Canada
    Posts
    36
    Points
    145
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    13

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    well just like in the section. she is a denier. she will be touchy and feely once she is comfortable with you and sees that you have potential to be the guy for her. Denier have sex or get intimate and touch when they have strong feelings for someone. What you need to do is build tons of rapport, and sexual Tension. But the sexual tension has to be under the radar and you have to also make her feel natural around you and that if things do escalate that you dont judge her as a slut. girls worry so much about being judge a slut that they keep from getting intimate with a guy becuase they feel that will ruin things. so you need to build rapport and sexual tension while be nonjudgemental and then using the proper strategy for this girl. she seems like either an investor, denier, idealist also known as a hopeful romantic. Or she is playing you and she is a tester, denier, idealist. Lots of testers like to seem like investor so you dont judge them so they will tell you lies about having sex or how many boyfriends they have had.lol but thats my personal opinion

    I'm playing her cocky/funny.. I give her lots of space, but at this point im concidering telling her that ive been thinking about her alot lately... would that be a mistake?
    I think she is a true idealist investor playing tester. I think she is really into me and is just waiting for me to increase the level of touch in the realtionship, but as you say...i need to take it slow and build lots of rapport.

    What do you think?

    Thanks alot for the help.

  3. #13
    crobinson1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,780, Level: 34
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 120
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    Colorado
    Posts
    1,236
    Points
    2,780
    Level
    34
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    193

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    well actually i have used a strategy like that and its in the cold reading part of my post. if you believe she is a hopeful romantic you can send a text she will respond to and then throw that in there but make sure the mood is light and not too romantic or heavy. i would send something like "hey guess who i would love to come fan me with a big leaf and feed me grapes by the pool ..yup its you." then when she responds you could say something like "yeah im just having a pretty down and i just found myself thinking about you making me feel better. nothing is better than a nice day by the pool/beach with a sexy girl :P"

  4. #14
    BMQ
    BMQ is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 145, Level: 2
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 5
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Location
    Ottawa Ontario Canada
    Posts
    36
    Points
    145
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    13

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Quote Originally Posted by crobinson1 View Post
    well actually i have used a strategy like that and its in the cold reading part of my post. if you believe she is a hopeful romantic you can send a text she will respond to and then throw that in there but make sure the mood is light and not too romantic or heavy. i would send something like "hey guess who i would love to come fan me with a big leaf and feed me grapes by the pool ..yup its you." then when she responds you could say something like "yeah im just having a pretty down and i just found myself thinking about you making me feel better. nothing is better than a nice day by the pool/beach with a sexy girl :P"

    I did something very similar, next time I see her I think I will try and escalate the touching very lightly, something along the lines of going in for the kiss... finally, and if it dosen't work...Im learning right? ...and there are PLENTY of women in this city.

    Thanks alot for your help crobinson,
    Much appreciated.

  5. #15
    crobinson1 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,780, Level: 34
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 120
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2010
    Location
    Colorado
    Posts
    1,236
    Points
    2,780
    Level
    34
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    193

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    lol no doubt you are learning. the best thing about this system is that it is supplementary to everything you have learned and it will just assist your pick up by knowing women to their very core and the type of values they are looking for in a guy

  6. #16
    Neuromancer1168 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 94, Level: 1
    Level completed: 88%, Points required for next Level: 6
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    Location
    Bloemfontein, South Africa
    Posts
    1
    Points
    94
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    I met a girl who I really like. I bought the intro to pandora's box and determined that she is definately T/D/R (private dancer). What would be the deeper strategy to get her devotion?

  7. #17
    tothem Guest

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Hum...pretty cool material dude... '-'

  8. #18
    Magnum is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 2,920, Level: 35
    Level completed: 14%, Points required for next Level: 130
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    31 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Feb 2011
    Posts
    83
    Points
    2,920
    Level
    35
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    125

    Question Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Hi, I just broke up with a NJR (iNvestor-Justifier-Realist, as in the Vin Dicarlo pandoras box system). At least I think she is... She's definitely an iNvestor-- short string of very long term boyfriends, not much dating in between, about equal in number of guy/girl friends, lots investing characteristics like buying me stuff and separation pain. Not so sure about the J and R, she definitely was totally fine with sex when we first met, and is pretty kinky, making me think she's a Justifier, but no tattoos and a very small number of prior partners, and all the risky stuff she talks about she never does, and ultimately the sex seems pretty special to her, making her seem kinda Denier. As for the Realist, well I initially thought she was a an Idealist because of her totally impractical artistic career that she was completely dedicated to, and long string of unambitious side jobs. However, over the last couple years I've discovered a lot of of Realist tendencies, such as she's kinda the responsible caretaker in her family, and the worthless father figure growing up. Now she wants to give up her artistic career to do something dangerous but that would pay much better.

    What do you guys think? Is she NJR? if not, what is she?

    And lastly, does this change my game plan for getting her back? I have been following the NoContact rules for getting the ex back, and I've followed them pretty well. The first rule is do not contact her for four weeks. I'm three weeks in. However, I read iNvestors are best dealt with by keeping you in her mind, otherwise she'll be looking for the next investment. In light of this new info, should I drop her a line to keep in touch? Or is NoContact more important to maintain until she contacts me or the four weeks is up?

  9. #19
    Dizzy is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 100, Level: 1
    Level completed: 50%, Points required for next Level: 50
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    Posts
    10
    Points
    100
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    10

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    I tried this on two girls in a span of twenty minutes or so and n-closed both of them. this stuff really works!

  10. #20
    Dykeinmaryjanes is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 78, Level: 1
    Level completed: 56%, Points required for next Level: 22
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered
    Join Date
    May 2011
    Posts
    1
    Points
    78
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    I am curious what category I would fall under.

    Tester vs Investor: I seek long term relationships, but like to be close friends some one before. I like the opportunity to get know people as friends, looking for the best person for me. But I am not the type of person who tries to change a bad boy. I like to find a nice guy the first time.

    Justifier vs Denier: I am bisexual and kinky with lot's of fetishes and have a super high sex drive. I also think sex is wonderful, deep and meaningful. I don't have sex casually. But enjoy having lot's of sex with some one I think is amazing.

    Realist vs Idealist: I am an optimist and very positive and proactive. I think life is great, should be great and do things to make it great. So I don't wait for people to rescue me. But I am not cynical or bitter either.


Page 2 of 6 FirstFirst 123456 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Pandoras box system
    By prjav in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 126
    Last Thread: 10-28-2014, 11:29 AM
  2. Pandoras Box
    By Bill Preston in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 09-16-2012, 07:36 AM
  3. Cold Read: The Color Test
    By Thorn in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 03-20-2010, 05:21 AM
  4. At a party, sets go cold quick. why??
    By SleekB in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 03-15-2010, 02:33 PM
  5. Some more stuff I'm reading now
    By Ambition in forum Self Improvement And Health
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-02-2009, 10:51 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com