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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Been looking all over for this! Thanks for the post.

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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    SO...MUCH...INFORMAT ION...AAARRRGGHH!! An eidetic memory would be nice about now. Loving this though, I find human psychology so fascinating. Definitely something I will try to master. This one will be getting read and re-read for sure.
    “All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”

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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Yeah hello there guys.

    After getting familiar with this whole "cold-reading" thing i decided to try it out on this girl I've been dating for a while now.

    and either i was a complete tool or she forcefully wanted to be seen as something she is not. It's about the Realist/Idealist part right?

    I think that she tended to be an Idealist because of several reasons:

    Intact family and strong ties to her brother(literally shares everything)
    Many friends and a few select "best friends" she spends an incredible amount of time with (especially Kathy).
    another strong indicator i thought was her overall activity with her friends and her fondness of traveling (Caribbean sea, Spain, Greece, Italy and many more paradisaical locations)

    So i went with "Hey as i see it you are 'insert above statements' and so I'd guess you'd be quite the Idealist"

    She immediately responded with "I see myself more as a Realist" and countered with "What would make you think I am an Idealist"

    So i was kind of dumbstruck and lost there and responded with "well sorry that's how i saw it." and obviously made the terrible mistake of explaining why I'd thought that would be true.

    So now She responded with "well we seem to have different kind of views there"

    Dead end here. I never intended to give the impression of having that viewpoint rather than stating i thought that might be the case.

    what do?
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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    -Slap urself reall hard on the face cuz that was all wrong.
    -Beeing close to her bro is not a sign of idealisme a sign of idealism is that her parents are still together AND that the father takes care of the whole family AND was always around (long buisnes trips..... is considered not beeing around)
    -Many friends few select best friends and female best friend ....means investor and not idealist.
    -Trips not really a good tell
    -bad opener
    -She sees herself as a realist, almost everyone does even if it's not true (just so u know u may have not been wrong although from what u gathered up u are wrong)
    -'sorry that's how i saw it' wrong! u should have said wow thats curious before i tell u why would u think u were a realist
    -Don't worry u'll get better with time i promise
    -Next time start a new thread
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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Well thanks for the reply.

    After my failure the conversation went pretty downhill and... kinda dry and distant. I'd say that whole thing served as a major setback. I am just going to learn from that

    thanks for the tips and advice

    (and yes sir I will start a new thread next time)
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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Allright so by reading this i know how to test the R vs I part and the T vs N. But how do you actually test if she is a justifier or denier. I mean, if you start flirting a little and she doesn't really respond to it it could also be cause she's just not into you right? Is there a concrete way to test this?

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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    -that is the easiest one to find out
    -next time start a new thread
    -look at her does she have tattos? if yes that is a strong sign and ask her how many, if two or more=definetly justifier.
    -Does she have high heels on?
    -is she wearing something sexy? (can be classy and sexy don't think she has to dress up like a prostitute)
    -how does she respond to Kino?
    ............
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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    So could you help me out, what kinds of questions do I ask to figure out the type while not being weird or seeming like I'm trying something?

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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    Wow!! I'm surprised this doesn't have more likes. This is awesome.

    So when is it a good time to use this once you've figured out her type?

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    Default Re: Cold reading and pandoras box

    I believe my HB is a Seductress as in the combination of Tester, Justifier and Realist. She's always well groomed, lookin' hot as hell, been through a lot of short-term relationships and isn't shy talking about sex.

    However she seems to always have an emotional side. She always talks about her emotions, how the guys she have been dating wasn't enough for her emotional side, etc.

    And I want to show my difference from other guys she dated, by showing that I'm capable of catering her emotional needs along with her physical needs.

    Any advice how can I accomplish it?


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