I haven't been on here for a while. (Like months, probably years anyway....)
I suck so bad. I wonder if there is a difference between low self esteem, and Approach Anxiety or are the two inter-related. Have girls lied to me and said I was cute, just to make me feel better? IDK!
I am well educated, sophisticated (good in bed-good size blah blah blah) dress very well and I am fit. I am sure I expect you all to tell me I am a piece of shyt but I wish maybe for some better advice. Strangely, I almost feel like after I had a successful year or two at college (scoring many sexy babes) then finally got a girlfriend, I got too comfortable and I became to self conscious about approaching chicks. I swear at 19 years old before I had a girlfriend, I approached the hottest girls in town/college, without fear, I didn't even know what aa was. Now currently, I analyze everything. WTF happened to me. I am supposedly more successful with my career, more sophisticated, and more fit, WTF am I doing wrong. OK I know... I don't approach enough chicks, is it because I am too cute for them or do they think I am creepy? WTF I just need help it actually makes me depressed please gents I could use some advice. Do you just walk over introduce yourself and start to chat them up about BS? maybe I just don't remember how it is done. Please help. Desperate for help . I guess I am beyond AFC and more like (Ultimate)AFC. By the way 25 now and turn 26 in August. I suck at life. I could use advice from you successful guys with all your seduction game rapport neg whatever that is. Thanks much respect, you guys are the best. I wish I could just score a chick. I think I am just overanalyzing it. If i just see a cute chick I am just supposed to go say hi, game her if not interested then move on fast. I feel like I put the pretty ones on way too high a pedestal which I know is wrong. helppppp