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    Default How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    Obviously, the girls are thinking about sex...

    So are we, and they know this...

    This is what is subcommunicated no matter what...

    But how do you bring up talk of sex on the surface level in an appropriate, non creepy way?

    They would love nothing more than for a guy to make them cum all night long...

    But how do you begin to introduce this, starting from NOTHING, in a night?

    There is no lying to them about intentions. Honesty shows through.

    How have you done this in the past?

    And I know it wasn't by showing them a magic trick or asking them to guess a number 1 - 10.

    These are real people.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    James Bond way: silently and deadly.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    The question is too general. Context is important. What is being talked about? A segue is needed. Something related to the subject at hand. Hey, did you see DeadPool? Wasn't it hilarious when she is butt f ing him. LOL Now you are talking about sex. Numerous segues available from here.

    Personally, though I have yet to do this, I would prefer to work up to a kiss. My hands will bring up the subject of sex, not my words. This is how I would plan to do it.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    I like to play with innuendos.

    I don't come out explicitly. It's always implicit first. That way, I get to let her imagination take over and run its own course.

    Example:

    Her: My work stresses me out, so places like this actually helps me to destress a lot.
    Me: Sounds like you could use a little excitement in your life.
    Her: Yeah... but where can I find it?
    Me: I know someone who can provide that. Might make you a tad hot and sweaty though *a slight smirk*
    If she likes you enough, her response will be positive. If not, it will be obvious too. Either way, something like this gives you the flexibility to innovate on the spot.

    Here are two examples of how things can flow from above...

    Her: I like the sound of that...
    *It's on, you just need to escalate*
    OR

    Her: I don't like the sound of that.
    Me: What? You don't like extreme sports? What a shame.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    There are so many ways to have this conversation.

    if attraction is established you can say anything and get away with it with a smile pretty much.

    Qualifier: You're so uptight! What are you a virgin? (Cheeky smile).

    Direct: This topic is boring, let's make it interesting, how's your sex life? (Cheeky smile)

    but it it's not necessary, actually pointless. Your words are to build attraction. I use this ancient techniques Pua seems to have forgotten called "Eye Contact" & "Kino Escalation" lol. Foreplay and even sex itself still fall under Kino. So if we have done all the minor touching and kissing or whatever it takes to establish that my organs are meeting her organs, then why say shit. I grab her arse, she looks at me and gives me a sexual smile and we walk to the nearest taxi. No conversation needed.

    Eye contact builds more sexual tension then any words, look at her for long enough in the eyes when she's attracted to you and she is already thinking about all the possibilities that may happen between you.

    Why Take Away the spontaneous out of it?

    I get it if you are building sexual tension over the phone(texting) or whatever before you meet her which I respect to a certain extent although attraction is enough to meet in person. But your still going to have to do it in person and still going to have to use Kino and eye contact when you see her so why not just start and end it there in person and save your phone credit with conversatio s you do not even have to have and just keep it simple with Kino and eye contact.

    My personal perspective: Your adding techniques for no reason, your complicating a process that is already flawless. Why fix or add to something that doesn't need it. If your going to fuck her then your going to touch her. So unless this cancels out using Kino for whatever retarded reason some person needs to do this. Which seems physically impossible then it's not an alternative just an extension on everything you already require doing, so what's the point in making it harder for yourself?
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    What Tyrone1991 said. Kino and eye contact. I do a lot of catch and release. Talk for a while, let them go, come back around later. I always try to kino in the first meet. And then when I come back, I typically approach where they don't see me, and I lead right in with a touch on the back or arm. They turn and see it is me, and they are comfortable with me touching them. This seems to really build their comfort level with me.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    Firstly: Fuck Comfort!!! I'm not a couch. But good on you for doing Kino.

    You are right, Kino Escalation does build a kind of comfort with her being touched by to escalate. But establishing Comfort will make the process to long.

    You can escaqlate alot faster by Leading.

    I go from Hand Shake, To Kiss, To Arse grab, To bedroom. No need to add steps. See process below:

    Hand Shake (Formal, Non Threatening, First touch)
    Kiss (Establish attraction, Excitement, First point of escalation)
    Arse Grab (Sexual Intention, Confirming Physical Attraction)

    Kino to me is a safe way to make sure you do not get in the "friend zone".
    A gay guy can tell her how good she looks or what he finds attractive about her. When I'm Being physical. Plus what I say. Its pretty damn clear that I want her physically. Confirms my Verbal Intentions.

    She has no excuse to get confused. Its pretty much like Tattooing on her forehead "Ty wants to Fuck you" so she wakes up and see's it every morning in the mirror
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    Tyrone1991. Wow. That is direct. I have not done any of THAT yet. I haven't even done 100 opens yet. Still getting going. Seeing how little things work. My plan, for the moment, is to dhv with being with some girls, but not hit anything hard unless they come to me. I'll keep that in mind for later on. Right now, I am learning. Getting better at reading, and seeing things i never would have seen before. In fact, that mixed group I got in good with, a couple of the girls had real shit faces on. But after I "got in", they were nice as can be. Two lessons: One, It is GOOD to be in with the group, and Two, Shit faced girls can be nice once you get in. I mean, they had shit faces that made me think lesbians. You get that a lot here in Los Angeles. But turns out, neither of them were.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    Dude, go at your own pace. Find things that work with your personality, be self critical and find your strengths and weaknesses and enhance your strengths and learn new techniques to replace them. Soon it will become natural and you will wake with a girl next to you and be like "how did that happen" then have to back track just so you can realise these techniques are so natural they are you.

    Just st remember everything is a lesson. So pay attention. Denial will get you nowhere.

    you will become the best version of yourself and every few months you will look at your progress and be able to see your potential. Have fun and enjoy the journey.
    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: How do you begin sex talk in a smooth way?

    But how do you know the Kino advance is welcome?

    Most of the time, I must be drinking at least slightly even to talk at all, especially about anything with substance.


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